What the hell do guys want in a girl(in general)

Post Reply New Topic

Men want sex and someone who validates their ego (in whatever way). That's a general rule. Beyond that, individuals will have their own specific needs and wants.

And who won't sleep with the stable boy while we're away in the wars.

I just want someone who is pretty and likes to run around with me at night.

Oh no. But what if the stable boy is like the farm boy from The Princess Bride?

"As you wish." Swoon...

eek. Really? I think i'd rather have babies X_x

Eh, I thought you'd want to crush your enemies, see them driven before you and hear the lamentation of the women.

Birth control pills.

Well I wouldn't object to a valorous Shield-Maiden by my side...

You make a compelling point.

Although few women can ride and fight while with child, and who will tend to the hearth?

babies? well see how dinner goes then well talk

I do make fantastic steak.

so do i, what do you use for flavor, i always sprinkle ground plan B on my girlfriends to really bring out that taste

I normally use a Sirloin steak and maranade it.
But sometimes i'll just season it with salt, pepper and parsley.

Now I am hungry

You're a woman of great courage to put up these kinds of questions online, so give yourself a little more credit than you do.

Anyway, the way we look at people is very similar to the way we look at art, people are going to find different things to appreciate with eachother. As for men, yes there are some similar patterns and some similar desires between us, but people are going to end up with very different outcomes with one another. But here's some basics on what most men want in a woman:

Physical attractiveness. Yes its true. Why? Because we are biologically designed to desire to pass on (well you know) to women. Yes we think A LOT about physical attraction. However, people are going to find different things attractive in a woman. Some guys will be turned on by gothic style clothing, others won't. Some will like a lot of make-up, others won't. Some will prefer a woman with more pounds, others won't. I mean, look around your local shopping mall, people of all different shapes and sizes tend to get together.

What I would do is instead of just saying "I want to find a guy", first look for the guy you want and then try to figure out what is going to get him attracted to you. But we don't ONLY care about physical attraction.

There is also companionship. Any woman I would consider atleast needs to be someone I can talk to comfortably. So for me, a woman who is overly sarcastic and pokes too much is not someone who I like. No offense, but a lot of women are picking up on this whole "brat attitude". It may look cute to the girlfriends at the feminist club, but we don't like that at all. The last thing we want in a relationship is someone who is going to argue with us constantly and make us feel like garbage.

Think about it, would you want to talk to a guy who tells too many sarcastic jokes and teases way too much when you honestly are feeling sad about something? Its the same thing for us. So the kinder and more open you are with men, the more they will be comfortable talking to you.

Keep in mind, men know that they have to be careful talking with women because if anything is taken the wrong way its easy for men to get in trouble. Be open, friendly and kind and you really can't go wrong with pleasing this side of what men need.


One more thing, I've said it a bunch of times, online dating is a great way to go. I hadn't had a girlfriend till about a couple months ago, but its a good way to meet people to date because everyone is doing it. Yeah there are people who make fun of it, but they're the ones who are giving themselves more trouble than they need to. If you're really lonely, go online. It worked for me at least. Okcupid and plentyoffish are good places to start.

Dude, come on. She's gotten the courage to post up a really stressful question. At least try to be nice to her.

If you require me to come on you i suggest you take that up with your local for hire male i don't provide such services. I'm not a milking cow for human gamates for cosmetic application to the face.

In relation to your point, I refer you to the second post I made on this thread.