Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl?

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Yes highly.
Sometimes I hate myself and sometimes I think it's not my fault bad things happened.
I flip very quickly too. But I don't manipulate and hurt people because of it.

She did, a lot. Recently when I ceased talking to her it was because she'd decided I was stalking her and felt like telling the world about it, while saying to my face she felt awful for saying it. WAYY too much drama. I do hope you're not like that?

I notice in your profile it says you're unsure if you have AS or not. Do you suffer/think you suffer from anything else?

Gosh, I hope i'm not. As far as other people tell me, I don't hurt other people - just myself. And I don't do that so much now either.
It's true though, you should keep away from someone manipulative like her.

PTSD maybe, or bi-polar. I don't ever want to be diagnosed with anything though, I don't like labels, or medication.
I just coast along the best I can.

I'm doing okay now. I'm more balanced than I used to be, since I found a good man to look after me.

I know how your son feels. I went through the same thing. I was friends with some real crap people when I was a kid. I didn't have special education classes, though. I wasn't diagnosed. My teacher made fun of me in class so that was how I became "an outcast" at school. My mother would get so mad at me for hanging out with people who would end up bullying me... but her approach of insulting me about it didn't really straighten that out for me. It took me a long time to figure out how not to have crap people for friends.

My son has taken a different approach. He was bullied in third grade, and the worst bully was a friend in between bullying, so we took some time to analyze that experience to find out what he could do to avoid people. He's in fifth grade now and has chosen people whose company he genuinely enjoys. He doesn't have a lot of friends but he has a few that he can rely on.

That's good I hope she stops. Due to where I study I still have to see her a lot, which isn't such a great thing.

Sorry to seem nosy, as I don't know much about you, can I ask, PTSD from what? I'm just curious to know. I don't think I'd ever go for a diagnosis either, I'd make me feel uncomfortable to know for sure. I just like to THINK things about myself, rather than be 100% sure.

That's really sweet Let's hope he sticks around. What's he like?

A lot of bad things - rape/beatings/violence, i've seen someone get shot, i've been stabbed. to name a few.

He's perfect. He accepts me when i'm having a bad day, lets me tell him everything and knows when to leave me alone when I want to have some time alone. And he never pushes me to talk or be normal.

Wow, and you're only 21.

He sounds really lovely. When I was with B, I think I pushed her too much to talk about things, and it led her into the arms of an ex. I wish I could've been as understanding as your guy sounds.

Aha yep, well i've been on my own pretty much since I was 5, so it's a long time. >.<

It took us a while to even things out, it used to be difficult with him - mostly because I was very difficult.
Now he knows me, and I know him.

Wow, do you mind me asking what happened?

I've thought this before, but you saying that has made me think about it a bit more, that she didn't really give me a chance to 'even it out'. She got bored and went back to him, is the impression I got. Which sucks, but, I do hope I find someone better

My mum died, my dad was a drunk. In and out of care, in the end I decided I was better off with drug dealers on the streets. Which looking back, I wasn't.

Exactly, if theres no chance to even it out - it can't be fixed.
It's taken us over a year to be happy fully with each other and act like adults.

From what you've told me, it sounds like C has experienced nothing compared to you. I hope she gets some perspective in later life.

Thanks for the chat, btw It's been nice to get to know you. I have no idea how you've managed to post over 4000 things on the site :S Do you use it a lot?

Yep. She probably will. I always think it's better to be positive, because someone has always had it worse off than you!

Haha, yes I do - and I post on many things, although I mostly hang out in the adult forum.
There's not a lot for me to do when i'm not at work and my boyfriend is, and I don't like to be outside.

I try and be positive about life for the same reason, I don't always succeed though

What's the adult forum like? I haven't had a chance to look over there yet. Joined a couple of years ago but I've only just become interested to post.

How come you don't like to be outside? Besides the cold, of course

I like the adult forum, it's generally light and breezy.
& there's too many people outside. >.<

"Light and Breezy" Sounds nice

Is it that you just don't want to see anyone or are afraid of talking to others or...?

EDIT: Sorry, just realised I'm not being very Breezy

haha it's okay.
people look at me funny, notice how weird i am.
i don't like it, so i stay away. it's easier.