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Captain_Brown
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22 Jul 2006, 10:13 am

I don't know.



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22 Jul 2006, 10:15 am

I've realized is that I don't really want to "get over" my crush.
What I'd like to do is repress it.
I want to try to resist the temptation to say anything about it to anyone (online forums for helping people sort out their emotional issues don't count) , and I'd also like to try to avoid having misguided feelings of jealousy towards her boyfriend.



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22 Jul 2006, 11:05 am

Yupa wrote:
I've realized is that I don't really want to "get over" my crush.
What I'd like to do is repress it.
I want to try to resist the temptation to say anything about it to anyone (online forums for helping people sort out their emotional issues don't count) , and I'd also like to try to avoid having misguided feelings of jealousy towards her boyfriend.


I'm not sure burying your feelings is the best approach. If you can find some kind ouf outlet to express what you feel (in private) I think that would work better for you. Posting here is the best thing you've done so far. Keep doing it to vent your feelings.


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22 Jul 2006, 12:14 pm

Yupa wrote:
I found it useful, and mostly, I agree with it


cool.

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but I don't think the bits about secret confession/virtuous rejection apply to me. Or, for that matter, the bits about running off and commiting adultery.


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24 Jul 2006, 12:17 am

dude, just bang her. as long as you don't have kids, then its all gravy



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24 Jul 2006, 10:29 am

nihilist_void wrote:
dude, just bang her. as long as you don't have kids, then its all gravy


Umm, she's taken.
And I'm sure she would find the idea of cousin sex (or even romance between cousins, which is closer to what I feel a desire for) repulsive.



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24 Jul 2006, 3:30 pm

Should I share some good inbreeding jokes? uhhhhh... I think I better not. They are a bit R-rated.



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25 Jul 2006, 9:22 am

jaguars_fan wrote:
Should I share some good inbreeding jokes? uhhhhh... I think I better not. They are a bit R-rated.


Don't worry about it, I a crush on some Japanese guys, have such pritty eyes.



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04 Aug 2006, 1:16 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
jaguars_fan wrote:
Should I share some good inbreeding jokes? uhhhhh... I think I better not. They are a bit R-rated.


Don't worry about it, I a crush on some Japanese guys, have such pritty eyes.


I don't see what that has to do with incest..... or being in love with family members.



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16 Aug 2006, 7:38 pm

I don't find your crush the least bit revolting, but I do strongly encourage you to stop sexually fantasizing about her. Infact, I thing you should let this crush go because of the following problems I'm about to list. Here are the problems: 1. you are related by blood. 2. If she finds out that you have crush on her, she might be repulsed by your sexual deviance and tell her parents, which will probably cause her family to have nothing to do with you or your family. 3.Also in a hypothetical situation where you and your cousin do get married and decide to have children, you might end up having a child with birth defects.



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25 Aug 2006, 2:32 am

ladakh wrote:
You have a crush on your cousin because she is your age, a girl, and is nice to you. Realize she most likely does not have a crush on you. You need to find someone like your cousin who likes you.
As for all you Aspies who shot this guy down for opening himself up to fellow Aspies- shame on you.


second that.

Yes, I read that she's older than you.

She has a boyfriend, and well, is nice to you because you're family.