should weight be an issue?

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its up to you if weight should be an issue or not, its your choice, no one's gonna stop you!

It's pretty boring to do the same position every time.

Otherwise, I like the way you think.

It really does sound like you're over thinking it a bit. What other people will think of your relationship should one develop is of little importance, really.

If you have concerns about her being insecure over her body, you should ask. I'd suggest being as delicate as you can if you decide to, though.

What about a girl underneath a guy? All the muscle and bone weight of a guy can add up to usually 150-180 pounds. Why is it ok for a guy to put 170 pounds of weight on a small female, but if it is a female who is heavy it is bad?

I think the amazon women weighed more than those guys (even brannigan), if only through sheer muscle mass and being 7 feet tall. Hence, my rule applies.

It also applies to you: you mentioned in the other weight thread that you were "damned to be under 190" for the rest of your life (link), meaning that it makes perfect sense for a 240 lb woman on top of you to be uncomfortable. My 300 lb body, with a bunch of muscle and fat added on however, could probably manage it. (At least in theory, it's not like i've had practical experience, but that's the idea I get)


I'd normally say it isn't... I'd feel like i'd crush just about anyone if I was on top. On the other hand, a 170 pound guy on top of a 240 pound woman would be fine...


My rule only applies to positions where one person has to put their weight on the other. Again, I don't know from experience, but I'd entertain a guess that there are plenty of positions that don't impose such an issue...

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The bigger the two participants are, the less positions they are able to do efficiently.

Actually, I've had over 400lbs of heavy machinery fall on me and I walked away unharmed.

You just don't understand the human anatomy, when a woman is getting plowed MOST of the time her legs are spread. When a man is having sex most of the time his legs are half open or most of the way closed. Male parts are located further north with (usually) an upward curve and female parts are located further south and go pretty close to straight up from a standing position. Now given that information can you deduce how much weight a male on top places on a woman on average versus a woman on top?

Keep in mind I probably have more muscle than you even if you weigh 300lbs, I walk to a cash register at Walmart and I get told I'm ripped. Fat will only serve as a crumple zone to lengthen the time duration of the initial impact of the weight.

Oh well, on top is only one position, there are many others.....

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I was actually joking when I said I liked the way you think. Sex just doesn't work like two objects of different sizes/weights. First off, women and men both have a different center of gravity. Second... like Pistonhead said our 'sexy bits' are in different areas and requires different positions for penetration. These two factors play into successful/unsuccessful sex.

Not to mention a book can't stick out a hand and balance itself.

I know what you mean. It's all pretty "meh".

it's important to me! any boyfriend of mine must. be. chubby.


ok, he doesnt HAVE to be, but i definitely think it's cute so no, weight doesnt matter to me. but it's super annoying when the other person complains about their weight..

Speaking from experience as a skinny/tall girl with a heavier boyfriend, it is pretty uncomfortable for smaller women to have larger guys on top. But as it was mentioned there are plenty of other positions. I prefer to be on top though.

I would prefer the woman to be on top, thats just me personally.

I am not at all ashamed to say I'm attracted to large women with large hips, thighs, and butts. I don't know why, but ever since I started taking a sexual interest in women, I always liked overweight women. I'm not sure if it's an AS thing or just personal preference.

A few pounds overweight is no big deal.

But there are so many obese people these days then how do you know that they won't weigh 400 pounds and have a butt like the back of a bus within a few years?

WEll, I do weight over 200 lbs. I'm tall, though, so, there isn't much muscle or fat.