I think I'm ret*d for not knowing what a hickey is.

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It was my first time making out. I didn't know what a hicky was until my mom noticed the marks on my neck. I also read that Hickies are trashy and it tells everyone you had sex last night. My boyfriend and I never had sex, we just held each other and kissed. I thought the neck biting was just perfectly normal and innocent make out behavior. I didn't know what I was doing, I didn't know how to make love, and I was letting my boyfriend do all the work. My mom's giving me a dirty look now, and I can't tell her I didn't mean it. I can't face my mother anymore. I fully intended to keep my relationship a secret because I don't know how she'll handle it. I don't want her to be overprotective of her adult daughter. I don't want to think about an eventual proposal where moms and dads don't approve of the engagement.

I'm 21 and he's 24. All we did was kiss each other, that was it. No sex. My boyfriend apologized, and I know he didn't mean it.

Please help, I feel like I'm ret*d. I didn't know what a hickey was, and I didn't know they were that bad. I'm really stupid. And now I have to walk around with these marks on my neck.