Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out

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26 Mar 2011, 1:39 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy".

Or maybe she's just busy and can't find the time to go out with you. It does happen. People get work schedules they can't work around and such, so if you ask her out and she says she is busy, suggest another time. If that doesn't work for her either, give her your number and say "Well here's my number, give me a call when you have some time and maybe we can get some coffee or something."

I wouldn't just assume that she's not interested because she shot you down once or twice. If she doesn't call, then you can assume she isn't interested.

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26 Mar 2011, 1:58 pm

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No. If you're truly knocked her socks off, she WILL ABSOLUTELY find the time to go out with you. If you've only merely piqued her curiosity (or less), then what you're saying may be true. If you've not stood out one bit from any other guy she could choose from, its highly unlikely she will ever go out with you.

Oh, and forget giving her YOUR number. She isn't going to call.

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26 Mar 2011, 2:33 pm

I agree with mra, if she's really busy but really interested , she will at least re-schedule the outing "ie. I am busy tomorrow , what about Saturday?" to her terms or give the guy the option ie. "I am really busy tomorrow, any better day?" , but if she says just "I am busy" then this should be a farewell.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:01 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

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thanks, that's what I was trying to say, I'll go ahead and add this to the first post with your permission.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:08 pm

I blame your costume for this misunderstanding.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I blame your costume for this misunderstanding.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:22 pm

mra1200 wrote:

Chronos wrote:

Aspie1 wrote:

No. If you're truly knocked her socks off, she WILL ABSOLUTELY find the time to go out with you. If you've only merely piqued her curiosity (or less), then what you're saying may be true. If you've not stood out one bit from any other guy she could choose from, its highly unlikely she will ever go out with you.

Oh, and forget giving her YOUR number. She isn't going to call.

yep. get her number, call her right then and there, and get her to type your name into her phone so you don't come up as an unknown number. also call her back on Sunday, unless Sunday is 6 days away.

something like that.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:23 pm

Stitch your name and home address into her knickers, and attach a stamp.

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26 Mar 2011, 4:26 pm

Moog wrote:

Stitch your name and home address into her knickers, and attach a stamp.

If you're able to access her knickers, I'd say you're in good shape, Mr. Moog.

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26 Mar 2011, 7:15 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I blame your costume for this misunderstanding.

I blame meth

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26 Mar 2011, 7:20 pm

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

Ok, that makes much more sense. "she will go out" was an incomplete sentence.

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26 Mar 2011, 7:30 pm

Lene wrote:

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lol @ "why?"

+2

As a rule of thumb, it's hardly a profound statement.

As an actual rule, where's your proof that it's accurate enough to warrant bold letters, underlining and stickying.

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26 Mar 2011, 7:43 pm

I wonder if they make fortune cookies with a big enough paper.

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27 Mar 2011, 12:42 am

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get :?:

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27 Mar 2011, 12:52 am

i will go out.

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27 Mar 2011, 12:58 am

What if you've never had a woman go out of her way to make time for you?

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