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ParrotGhost119
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02 Apr 2011, 7:36 pm

Well, ladies and gentlemen, I have made a move. I have taken Arman Khodei's advice and put my hand on my beloved's shoulder.

Arman_Khodaei wrote:
I suggest subtle things. Maybe you can touch him gently, offer a hug, maybe at some point even take his hand. That would be exhilarating, I think. he might freeze up, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Also, a note telling him how you really like him and everything sounds like a good idea.

I don't even know why I'm making such a big deal over the tiniest thing, but I think it's somewhat important.
Thank you to everyone that offered advice. I appreciate it. :D



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08 May 2011, 11:24 pm

Turns out he's asexual. I should have known this was coming. :(



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09 May 2011, 1:48 am

ParrotGhost119 wrote:
Hi.
I wanted advice on something.
About 6 months ago, I met a boy who is about one year older than I am (I am 13.)
We began to get along quite well, and eventually, I discovered I have feelings for him.
This is the most in love I have ever been. Even though I see him more than once a week, I am anxious to see him again. My heart skips a beat whenever I see him. I feel like this is more than a crush.
The thing is, I am quite sure he is an Aspie like me, and I was wondering if anybody knew of a way to tell him how I feel, so that he can get the message. :oops:


When you say I love you, you are committing. You aren't committing because you are too young, just drop the Hollywood dream act. I have been with my girlfriend for over year before breakup, and I didn't want to use the "I love you" phrase because I wasn't ready to commit.