05 May 2011, 11:26 am
05 May 2011, 1:38 pm
05 May 2011, 2:17 pm
all_white wrote:
Anyone else who cares will have noticed the title and will agree with me that there's a big difference between extra marital sex and extramarital sex.
Bravo.
05 May 2011, 6:12 pm
05 May 2011, 7:25 pm
namaste wrote:
i feel quite lonely
no friends, no relatives, no cousins
my hubby is workholic
earlier i tried getting into extra martial affairs
but i scared those people out
i dont want sexual relationship its more of emotional relationship
i seek someone to chat with, visit places, share my feelings etc
what do u all feel...i know its risky and dangerous
no friends, no relatives, no cousins
my hubby is workholic
earlier i tried getting into extra martial affairs
but i scared those people out
i dont want sexual relationship its more of emotional relationship
i seek someone to chat with, visit places, share my feelings etc
what do u all feel...i know its risky and dangerous
A lot of men who are workaholics worry that they might find themselves in a position where they are not able to support their family financially, or that they must maintain a certain standard of living for their family. A lot of men also have very demanding jobs and aren't really in a position to say no their boss or they risk getting fired. I'm not sure what category your husband falls into, but rather than cheat on him, you should talk to him.
I think you need to make it clear that you prefer his presence and companionship over maintaining a particular standard of living. That you would rather he had a lower paying job if it meant he could spend more time with you. I think you will need to be sensitive to his feelings in this matter and be kind and reassuring that it really is ok for him to not work so much rather than be upset with him.
05 May 2011, 11:32 pm
Chronos wrote:
namaste wrote:
i feel quite lonely
no friends, no relatives, no cousins
my hubby is workholic
earlier i tried getting into extra martial affairs
but i scared those people out
i dont want sexual relationship its more of emotional relationship
i seek someone to chat with, visit places, share my feelings etc
what do u all feel...i know its risky and dangerous
no friends, no relatives, no cousins
my hubby is workholic
earlier i tried getting into extra martial affairs
but i scared those people out
i dont want sexual relationship its more of emotional relationship
i seek someone to chat with, visit places, share my feelings etc
what do u all feel...i know its risky and dangerous
A lot of men who are workaholics worry that they might find themselves in a position where they are not able to support their family financially, or that they must maintain a certain standard of living for their family. A lot of men also have very demanding jobs and aren't really in a position to say no their boss or they risk getting fired. I'm not sure what category your husband falls into, but rather than cheat on him, you should talk to him.
I think you need to make it clear that you prefer his presence and companionship over maintaining a particular standard of living. That you would rather he had a lower paying job if it meant he could spend more time with you. I think you will need to be sensitive to his feelings in this matter and be kind and reassuring that it really is ok for him to not work so much rather than be upset with him.
THere is no point in sitting and talking with him...i said earlier he talks in monosyllables.
Or he is too interested in catching up with the cricket scores
05 May 2011, 11:43 pm
06 May 2011, 12:04 am
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
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06 May 2011, 12:34 am
namaste wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
wouldn't it be more of finding hay in a needle stack?
06 May 2011, 12:42 am
namaste wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
So you better get to it. The longer you stall and complain about your marriage, the longer you will be friendless.
Honestly, I can't comment on your cultural practices for marriage, so I won't even try. I'm still getting the impression you need a friend and not an affair.
06 May 2011, 12:46 am
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
namaste wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
So you better get to it. The longer you stall and complain about your marriage, the longer you will be friendless.
Honestly, I can't comment on your cultural practices for marriage, so I won't even try. I'm still getting the impression you need a friend and not an affair.
maybe i can bring a pet and sit talking with it...
one way conversation
06 May 2011, 12:48 am
namaste wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
namaste wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
So you better get to it. The longer you stall and complain about your marriage, the longer you will be friendless.
Honestly, I can't comment on your cultural practices for marriage, so I won't even try. I'm still getting the impression you need a friend and not an affair.
maybe i can bring a pet and sit talking with it...
one way conversation
Don't knock the pet idea so quickly. If you're looking for a friend, a pet that is highly interactive may do you a bit of good.
A dog, for example, is an interactive pet. A cat is not.
06 May 2011, 1:17 am
i am too lazy to handle dog.....
im lonely and the cat is a lonely animal suits me well
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
namaste wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
namaste wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The answer to this is find some friends.
which is like finding a needle in haystack
So you better get to it. The longer you stall and complain about your marriage, the longer you will be friendless.
Honestly, I can't comment on your cultural practices for marriage, so I won't even try. I'm still getting the impression you need a friend and not an affair.
maybe i can bring a pet and sit talking with it...
one way conversation
Don't knock the pet idea so quickly. If you're looking for a friend, a pet that is highly interactive may do you a bit of good.
A dog, for example, is an interactive pet. A cat is not.
06 May 2011, 2:20 am
06 May 2011, 2:30 am
06 May 2011, 2:41 am
With your definition of affair, I'm having a few.
Wow... I never realized India was so rigid about that kind of thing.
