What is your ideal man/woman?

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That shouldn't matter (I am a Australian by the way).
And besides, we're all meant to have a little fat on our bodies, that's what my Mum says anyways ~♥
I don't think it's that bad, smile more ~♥

I agree, I'm trying to teach myself to love and embrace my natural body fat, and allow it to increase a small bit at a time so I can reach my natural shape (I think I've spent a while being too child shaped due to my fear of gaining weight and my hatred of body fat). Body fat can be healthy and attractive, despite what society tries to drill into our heads.

Unfortunately, God doesn't live up to my standards. Now where does that leave me?

Give it another chance... I wasn't sold on God before either, but I just didn't understand it

I can't be a chooser.
The question is what woman would consider me the ideal man?
The answer so far is none.

This question cant be answered, But its fun to dream.

I'll know what my ideal woman is when I find her.

Musical ability and not being shallow are pluses for me though. I despise shallow women.

For a man, I don't know. I don't really have an ideal. I take whatever I can get. Being a fat chick in America sucks.

If I knew the answer to that, I might be in a relationship at the moment. Even so, I suppose my ideal woman would be a mental nudist. That is, someone who doesn't cling too strongly to her beliefs. At the same time, if there is something she believes or believes in, then that's great, but she should at least be able to explain why she feels so strongly. The problem with relationships is that there are way too many rigid rules that need to be followed. I can't stand rigid people, and rigid people subscribe to rigid rules. Most people feel that animals/vegetables/democracy/feminism/guns/military/Osama Bin Laden/money/life in general is sacred, and it's hard for me to take somebody seriously when they can't just let go of their groups and religion and be free. People are too damn serious, and they wonder why things aren't getting better, either for themselves or for the entire world. Being happy and being serious are scarcely similar. So if she likes to have sex, I would expect that she go do that in lieu of complaining about gender stereotypes and how "the man" is holding her back and preventing her from enjoying herself. Why do people feel the need to apologize for being who they are? What's wrong with liking sex, or liking board games, or math, or anything for that matter? If you like sports, then that's feminine. Never mind if other girls like sports. If you are a girl, and you like to play football, then that's feminine for you. People that are going to judge are going to find an excuse to do so. Why be afraid of people who always act the same?

So if I can't sit there and poke her for 2 hours and have the most fun in the world, then it probably won't work. That's the litmus test. If I really like someone, then she should be able to poke me for 2 hours and be perfectly content. Sure, it's childish, but most people are way too mature for their own good. Having fun isn't a mature, adult thing to do, now is it?

Now sure, if that's all I'm doing with her, that would get boring after a while, but everything has to be fresh and exciting these days. People can't even eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich anymore, because that's not good enough for them. No, everything people do has to be exciting and novel and super special. So if she is always pressuring me to go out somewhere to the point that she is unable or unwilling to hang out around the house/apartment for 5 hours and play board games and read books and sit and talk and poke each other, then it probably won't work out. There are enough socially maladjusted psychopaths out there, and the last thing I need is to date one.

- Musician or artist
- Thin
- Beautiful eyes
- Intellectual
- Ambivert but more introvert than extrovert
- Smart
- Fun
- Adventurous
- Pretty
- Funny
- Loyal
- Geeky
- Not emo
- Loves me as much as I love her
- A bit eccentric

Must not like boiled peanuts.

I don't know what anybody likes about them. The smell is even repulsive.

Boiled peanuts? Is this a real thing, or a joke? You know I'm gonna have to boil some peanuts now?

I don't think I really have an ideal man or woman.
Except my current boyfriend of course

I need to be comfortable with them - some people I instantly click with and others I never will, obviously a person needs to fall under that first category to then go on to become a partner - luckily the people I click with turn-out to be trustworthy and respectful.

Men - there's a scent, not their aftershave or deodorant, but I swear the scent is my picking up on pheromones. It's always a similar scent, it's vitally important for my initial attraction to a man and counter-acts other factors...it's the scent of pure sexual attraction. Ideally I like guys with hair - both facial (beard and moustache) and body hair (chest hair) - either big hairy rocker type guys or I can sometimes go for the sort of arty geeky guys. Open-minded, funny, caring, a little arrogant and social.

Women - petite hands and nice backside, they do have to be smaller than me but not so much as to make me feel huge and unfeminine, I think as I'm getting older I'm going from liking more fem girls to going for more butch girls, I quite like a skinhead on a woman but like more feminine hair too. I like my women to be comfortable with their bodies and sexuality, not too girly, and a little submissive.

It's a very real US Southern thing. My husband loves these things. The last time he got them, he had to throw them out the car window because they were making me sick.

Miranda Cosgrove
Someone who's quirky, weird, random, ditzy, emotional/sensitive, hyper. Think of how a 13year-old girl with sever ADHD & dyslexia is. What others would think of as stupid, immature, childish, retorted ect; I think is really cute & funny & kind of on the same level as me.
But I'll be interested in most anyone who's willing to give me a chance

For all those complaining about how being fat places you at a disadvantage, I have but one question:

Who gets the blame?