Look Him in the Eye and Smile

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Smiles I don't think really are a sign of itnerest, even if they are intended to be, it makes the person look more apprachable because they are friendly, not "I want your body".

giving someone the old "eye" would be more a sign of interest in my opinion

I am reveiwing my book on body language.

"DOWNCAST EYES : After eye contact has been sustained for slightly longer than is social appropriate, when the female looks down before she looks away, it is a solid sign of interest."

It mention its not the big friendly smile, but a more slight smile were the teeth maybe
barely seen and the eyes narrow.

I would want my money back tbh.

I totally agree, usually when a a girl/woman does smile at me its just a sign from her that from what she's seeing I'm not hard on the eye and I'm not turning her off per se (in the overall sense, not just the one).

Also guys, here's another thing. Sometimes women will be REALLY interested in you and they'll convey it but it won't be conveyed with a smile. Especially if she's got a little bit of attitude or a feisty edge, girls like that prefer to hit you with eye to eye sincerity if they are interested. When I've found out that one of the most clear signs is when your talking to a girl, she seems real fascinated and interested by what your saying, its written all over her face just about, but when you break gaze with her and start talking to other people she doesn't look away from you but keeps that look fixed (or if she goes into looking into you like that like 5 minutes later without you even talking to her). Doesn't even always mean you'll be able to get the verbal comunication around that side of the way but its definitely a sign that you made a heck of an impression.

Smiles, flirtations, they quite often mean nothing more than superficial social approval (like "yeah, you at least look like you'd be semi interesting or ok to talk to and you at least come off like your the kind of person I like knowing"), doesn't mean much unless you've known em for a while and are getting much more solid signs like them really radiating it at you from a lot deeper at 'those' sorts of moments. As for being glowed at by a girl who hasn't talked to you or still doesn't know it yet, I take that as a crush and looks infatuation thing - nothing wrong with it just that no matter how hard their glowing at you it's quite often a dead end because they're idealizing you way more than whats healthy which makes the situation real brittle when it comes to words.