blue_bean wrote:
I hope one certain couple that was on here never comes back.
She forced him to leave WP with her, as he was friends with other females here. It was his choice to do what she says though and cause heartache for his friends, and that makes him a douchebag.
"Douchebag" isn't quite the word I'd use. "Idiot", yes; "coward", yes; but I really think that he isn't completely aware of the effect that he has on people, and that he was confused about the whole thing.
It was cowardly of him, though, not to take responsibility for the pain that he caused, and to agree with her that the situation was somehow everyone's fault but his: if she keeps telling him that he can hurt people and then blame
them for being hurt, he's very quickly going to turn into his father.
Her behaviour was much worse than his, though; she deliberately manipulated people and then threw them away once she'd achieved her own ends; and then there were those Youtube videos...
I wouldn't mind if he came back, because
1. I still miss him insanely; although I certainly wouldn't open up to him completely again until he proved that I could trust him with my feelings: and that would take a long time.
2. He has a lot of explaining to do; and it pisses me off that I can't confront him and make him face up to his own actions.
Her, on the other hand... if she fell into a volcano it would make me very happy.
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