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02 Aug 2011, 11:54 am

Have you tried OKCupid? or some dating site. Maybe get to know the girls from this site on Facebook or Chat? Sometimes you just have to fish around and get to know people first before you can decide if you like them or not.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:04 pm

You certainly are a 'confused dude'.



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02 Aug 2011, 12:06 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
Have you tried OKCupid? or some dating site. Maybe get to know the girls from this site on Facebook or Chat? Sometimes you just have to fish around and get to know people first before you can decide if you like them or not.
OKCupid? What is that? Is it legitimate? And just so you would know I don't use Facebook (because I don't trust in Facebook) and don't know how to chat. I try to fish around for straight tomboy girls but they aren't there. Do you know a site where I can find a lot of them?


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02 Aug 2011, 12:07 pm

Jonsi wrote:
You certainly are a 'confused dude'.
:? Thank you?


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02 Aug 2011, 12:10 pm

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NOW I'M 16 YEARS OLD. ISN'T THERE ANY 16-YEAR OLD TOMBOY GIRL THAT WANTS TOO TALK TO ME?


Dude, you're still going on about this? All I can say is that you probably won't find what you're looking for this way.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:12 pm

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NOW I'M 16 YEARS OLD. ISN'T THERE ANY 16-YEAR OLD TOMBOY GIRL THAT WANTS TOO TALK TO ME?


Dude, you're still going on about this? All I can say is that you probably won't find what you're looking for this way.
I'm sorry. Is just that...



























...I'm lonely :cry: .


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02 Aug 2011, 12:19 pm

Well, instead of posting this way, why not look for what you seek? Right now, you're coming off as awfully desperate. Most tomboys are fairly independent types who would run away from the desperate. So make a list of what you want in a girl & set about to meet someone. Can be here on WP or elsewhere. Just do it in a not threatening or creepy way.

See my previous post on the prior page. Oh & Sci Fi & gaming are a couple of other places to search. Btw, I was heavy into sci fi starting as a young girl. I'm sure there are still some girls into horses....maybe not as many but I still see a lot of horses in my area so it's more common than one of the other posters thinks.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:22 pm

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Well, instead of posting this way, why not look for what you seek? Right now, you're coming off as awfully desperate. Most tomboys are fairly independent types who would run away from the desperate. So make a list of what you want in a girl & set about to meet someone. Can be here on WP or elsewhere. Just do it in a not threatening or creepy way.

See my previous post on the prior page. Oh & Sci Fi & gaming are a couple of other places to search. Btw, I was heavy into sci fi starting as a young girl. I'm sure there are still some girls into horses....maybe not as many but I still see a lot of horses in my area so it's more common than one of the other posters thinks.
Do you think I should make the list here?


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02 Aug 2011, 12:26 pm

No. I think you should write it out on paper. Then you might have a better idea of what you'd like for a gf.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:32 pm

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No. I think you should write it out on paper. Then you might have a better idea of what you'd like for a gf.
Ok. But let me point you out that finding a tomboy girl at where I live is going to be hard. Because there are not a lot of tomboy girls in my high school. And the only place I might find tomboy girls is in University or College. But I still haven't finished high school. Well, I'll try. BTW tomboy girls are hot :oops: . OOOPS I broke the 4th wall.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:36 pm

So there aren't any that you know of at your school. Are you still in school or are you on break for the summer? If so, I'll bet there are tomboys at the beach, or doing something active. The shy ones will likely have their noses in a book or glued to a screen of some sort.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:41 pm

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So there aren't any that you know of at your school. Are you still in school or are you on break for the summer? If so, I'll bet there are tomboys at the beach, or doing something active. The shy ones will likely have their noses in a book or glued to a screen of some sort.
Actually, this is my final vacation week. I start school next monday. We, the Puerto Ricans, start school on august. Please, tell me more about the shy ones.


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02 Aug 2011, 12:57 pm

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tomboy4good wrote:
So there aren't any that you know of at your school. Are you still in school or are you on break for the summer? If so, I'll bet there are tomboys at the beach, or doing something active. The shy ones will likely have their noses in a book or glued to a screen of some sort.
Actually, this is my final vacation week. I start school next monday. We, the Puerto Ricans, start school on august. Please, tell me more about the shy ones.


Try a library. I think you should try meeting some on your own... You're on your own now. Observe others. Soon you'll learn to tell who is outgoing & who is not.

Good luck!


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02 Aug 2011, 2:03 pm

tomboy4good wrote:
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tomboy4good wrote:
So there aren't any that you know of at your school. Are you still in school or are you on break for the summer? If so, I'll bet there are tomboys at the beach, or doing something active. The shy ones will likely have their noses in a book or glued to a screen of some sort.
Actually, this is my final vacation week. I start school next monday. We, the Puerto Ricans, start school on august. Please, tell me more about the shy ones.


Try a library. I think you should try meeting some on your own... You're on your own now. Observe others. Soon you'll learn to tell who is outgoing & who is not.

Good luck!
:D Awesome! Thanks for the info, tomboy4good.


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