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How old were you?
I never had sex, I want to! 38%  38%  [ 88 ]
I never had sex, I don't want to. 8%  8%  [ 19 ]
Under -14 4%  4%  [ 10 ]
14-16 7%  7%  [ 15 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 32 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 22 ]
20-25 12%  12%  [ 28 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 7 ]
30-35 2%  2%  [ 5 ]
35-40 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
Over 40+ 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 229

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31 May 2011, 7:39 pm

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the day before my 14th birthday.


Wow, lucky, was it an early present or something?


yes. i still talk with the guy too. :D


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31 May 2011, 8:01 pm

Haven't done it yet. Never had an actual opportunity in sex, but it's not the end of the world. It'll happen eventually. I'm very patient. :)


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31 May 2011, 10:18 pm

I was 15.


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01 Jun 2011, 9:38 am

6 more years and there'll be a movie about me.


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01 Jun 2011, 9:43 am

18, quite recently too.
For some odd reason since the age of 15 I've been convinced I'll end up a lonely crazy cat lady that will never be within 2 inches of a guy. I was just so sure I'd never do it with anyone and I was so undesirable to the opposite sex it wasn't funny.
Well, thank god I was wrong.


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01 Jun 2011, 12:34 pm

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18, quite recently too.
For some odd reason since the age of 15 I've been convinced I'll end up a lonely crazy cat lady that will never be within 2 inches of a guy. I was just so sure I'd never do it with anyone and I was so undesirable to the opposite sex it wasn't funny.
Well, thank god I was wrong.


Congrats to you then! Are you still with him, are you happy?

It's always nice to hear that some aspies do seem to have luck.



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01 Jun 2011, 3:01 pm

glad to see I'm not the only one who is less than interested in losing my virginity.

What the hell am I doing in this sub forum anyway?



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01 Jun 2011, 3:08 pm

USMCnBNSFdude wrote:
glad to see I'm not the only one who is less than interested in losing my virginity.

What the hell am I doing in this sub forum anyway?

I love your avatar. I may steal it for another forum.



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01 Jun 2011, 3:17 pm

Never had, but want to. but thanks to a recent discovery I made in a different thread down in the adult section, I doubt it would be a pleasant experience for the female partner, so I better not.



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01 Jun 2011, 3:31 pm

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Never had, but want to. but thanks to a recent discovery I made in a different thread down in the adult section, I doubt it would be a pleasant experience for the female partner, so I better not.


Can you give me a link? What was this thread about? 8O



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01 Jun 2011, 3:32 pm

OldFashioned wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
18, quite recently too.
For some odd reason since the age of 15 I've been convinced I'll end up a lonely crazy cat lady that will never be within 2 inches of a guy. I was just so sure I'd never do it with anyone and I was so undesirable to the opposite sex it wasn't funny.
Well, thank god I was wrong.


Congrats to you then! Are you still with him, are you happy?

It's always nice to hear that some aspies do seem to have luck.


Yes and yes. :thumleft:

I know, I do feel pretty lucky!


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01 Jun 2011, 4:08 pm

^Sameness!^ (And if you must all know.... 19).


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04 Jun 2011, 5:17 am

I am not sure if I am an AS :(

Mine is quite early, but not too bad....many years ago.... I will feel quite embarassed to say it out, although I have already voted..

Experience...Actually I think it is good to have more than less. But quality is actually more important. Love is more important than pure sex to me.

Another good thing is, you can have more understanding on this by have more experiences...



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04 Jun 2011, 2:17 pm

I lost it in 2001 at 17. I had two more boyfriends after that, the most recent in 2003. I'm not avoiding dating but I'm not really looking either. I've got a profile on a few gay dating sites but that's it. I've turned down casual sex offers since then. It's just not a pressing concern of mine. Trust me when I say that sex with someone you're not romantically attracted to is no more pleasing than masturbation.



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04 Jun 2011, 3:57 pm

Lost mine far too young to someone who's probably nothing now.



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05 Jun 2011, 8:19 am

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Me seeing a prostitute for sex? Never!


Me neither. But some people would, not that I have anything against people who do but I wouldn't advise doing it, especially for one's first time. :D


defnitely. i think its the actual risk rather than the so-called 'stigma'. bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.