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01 Jun 2011, 12:04 am

I think some people can't see that for some people, sex is just sex and there is no other attachment there; so they have trouble understanding how some people can get enjoyment out of it.

I have been in the person developed feelings and were devastated that because of that i wouldn't have sex with them anymore. This can be an issue for some FWB. I have also heard that this outcome is common from other people i know. So it is probably better to look outside your close friends incase someones feelings get hurt.

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01 Jun 2011, 12:16 am

Many people with ASD simply can't live with others, so open/casual relationships are ideal in most circumstances.

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01 Jun 2011, 5:34 am

OldFashioned wrote:

Today many people have a sex friend, basically someone to drink a glass of wine with before having wild sex and then leaving without any conversation - "Until next week darling!".

Do you think Aspies can have a sex friend? Do you think it would be a good thing for them to have a non emotional relationship like that?

I'm considering it thought I'd much rather be with a girl I love and who loves me but I wouldn't know how to go about that anyway.

I've noticed that sex friendships only happen to the very good-looking people.

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01 Jun 2011, 7:10 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

OldFashioned wrote:

I've noticed that sex friendships only happen to the very good-looking people.

What about if you're average?

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01 Jun 2011, 7:19 am

OldFashioned wrote:

Today many people have a sex friend, basically someone to drink a glass of wine with before having wild sex and then leaving without any conversation - "Until next week darling!".

Is it a trend? A new thing? The Romans were famous for their bacchanalia.

Do these encounters look like this at all:

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01 Jun 2011, 7:25 am

Moog wrote:

OldFashioned wrote:

Today many people have a sex friend, basically someone to drink a glass of wine with before having wild sex and then leaving without any conversation - "Until next week darling!".

Is it a trend? A new thing? The Romans were famous for their bacchanalia.

Do these encounters look like this at all:

damn it moog. put your porn stash away. LOL

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01 Jun 2011, 8:23 am

Moog wrote:

OldFashioned wrote:

Today many people have a sex friend, basically someone to drink a glass of wine with before having wild sex and then leaving without any conversation - "Until next week darling!".

Is it a trend? A new thing? The Romans were famous for their bacchanalia.

Do these encounters look like this at all:

OT: Rubens makes me smile. thank you for that.

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01 Jun 2011, 8:39 am

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I don't think it's becoming a trend I just think it's becoming more socially acceptable to talk about in public and after all it's just fun. I know some people attach bigger meaning to it but if you're being safe and doing it safely, what does it matter who you bang?

That how my current relationship started & after have a phone call today its now one hell of an Über Charlie Foxtrot.

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01 Jun 2011, 8:44 am

OldFashioned wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

OldFashioned wrote:

I've noticed that sex friendships only happen to the very good-looking people.

What about if you're average?

I am:)

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01 Jun 2011, 8:46 am

I think average and below average manage just fine

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01 Jun 2011, 9:33 am

Kelamin wrote:

I think average and below average manage just fine

And I thought you needed a six pack, to be taller than 1m75 and be a total macho.

In my experience being a gentleman doesn't really work with girls they find it weird... Maybe the fact that I'm only 1m74 tall and dress in a kind of classy but old fashioned way doesn't help...

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01 Jun 2011, 11:11 am

I always thought that a "girlfriend" was a friend (someone who loves you unconditionally and has your back) that a guy was sexually intimate with. I've been told that I'm wrong, and I'm not sure I get it. What's the difference between that and a f**kbuddy?

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01 Jun 2011, 12:01 pm

hpcrowley wrote:

The difference is you are intimate with other things with a girlfriend. a f**k buddy you simply f**k and leave.

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01 Jun 2011, 12:15 pm

MXH wrote:

hpcrowley wrote:

The difference is you are intimate with other things with a girlfriend. a f**k buddy you simply f**k and leave.

That's not really a friend, then, just an aquaintance. Everyone I consider a "friend", I'm emotionally intimate with...or at least I try to be.

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01 Jun 2011, 12:17 pm

I guess having a female friend with benefits would be the best thing for me, as I am quite certain that no woman this planet would be able to put up with me in a relationship. Alas, all of my female friends are in relationships, and I even if they were not, I think just approaching them to ask if they wanted to have sex with me every once in a while would be a little... desruptive for our friendship (besides the fact that they had to put up with the questionable honour of being my first.)

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01 Jun 2011, 12:26 pm

hpcrowley wrote:

Girlfriends are for long term relationships, the people you might want to marry later on and have children with and wake up seeing their face every day of your life.

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