The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Girls I approached often mention deal-breakers which are unchangeable traits of my being.
A girl I met through a local forum made it clear that she would only marry a Christian guy in a church, so I distanced myself from her.
Result: She dated a Muslim Sunni guy,a far friend of mine, for a year before breaking up with him (for a totally unrelated reason).
A coworker girl I approached, invited her to lunch several times told me "I will never marry a non-muslim" (knowing that I am atheist), so I distanced myself from her.
Result: Now she's dating the first atheist guy (from Christian Armenian family) who asked her out. They have been a year together.
Another girl made it clear to me that she only wants an outgoing extrovert guy, the opposite of her, so I didn't try again with her.
Result: She will date a guy this weekend who stays home most of the time, she told me herself that she always find him online all the time, even on weekend, and he's also of the geek type. Not outgoing at all.
My conclusion: I will never believe any girl anymore, I will keep being persistent, stubborn and determinant (like those guys did) till I get the real reason of rejection.
This is the time for the sage wisdom that can only be presented in the medium of rap.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-EjqtXOd9I[/youtube]
Ok ladies, before you jump on me that was hyperbole and I'm just kidding.
But, there is something to be said for the differences in communication styles between men and women. I do feel that the communication style of women is more, um, layered.
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