I fancy a brilliant male aspie. What should I do?

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i dont think waiting would matter; if he isn't actively avoiding you (specifically you, not the situation), then i'd say he's comfortable enough, but try to approach him in a quiet location; not the canteen or anywhere else where there is music and/or lots of other people.

and no, i dont think he'd discuss your avances with others, at the most, he'd ask his best (only?) friend for advice.

I've never heard a woman say well endowed about herself. Does that mean you have a big penis?

No, silly! When a woman says she is "well endowed" it means she has large breasts.

So how do you know he has AS?

Regards,
Eldanesh

So if a woman declares she is well hung then that means she has saggy breasts?

Though lots of guys actualy like saggy breasts. I'm one of them. The perversity of human sexuality indeed.

I request pics from OP...or it never happened.

Well, first, it's not that hard to tell just by the way he is. Also his friends confirmed that, and they told me not to waste time and effort because it's not going to work out...

So his friends know but does he? I know from personal experience that self awareness of AS can result in very different.. attitudes If he know he has it, it could be him progating the word on his lack of availability. If he doesn't know or believe that he has AS, his friends could just as easily be misunderstanding as people with AS struggle with the concept of friendship anyway.

Oh, and as someone who is also a physics student with AS let me say that I don't particularly appreciate being patronized by someone pretending to be interested by my work. It's true I can easily be goaded into talking about it due to excitability, but I hold no illusions as to other people's interest in such odd subject matter

Regards,
Eldanesh

Agreed. Laughably, I am also a physics student. The worst part about people feigning interest lies in the questions they ask. In the past this has happened to me and the questions they put forth make it blatantly obvious to me that they have absolutely no concept of what I am trying to tell them...

In any case, cheers