I briefly dated an aspie girl when I was young, and while I found her exhausting and a trial in many ways, I also loved her creativity and her passion and her gentleness. The way I met her was we were put together on a project in computer class where we had to create files of customers for a business. We had to come up with imaginary names for them, and I named them all after the great murderers of history- Charles Manson, Jack the Ripper etc. The others in the class were annoyed and criticized me, but she thought it was funny and laughed.
Aspie women rock!