How can I find a companion?

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04 Jul 2011, 7:01 am

I definitely recognize myself in the opening post. Sometimes I fear I'll never find love, ever. At other times I think, that's bull, just believe in yourself. You're a likeable person. The hard thing is to wait for that girl who'll see your good qualities and love you for it.

A shot in the dark: If there's a girl in the Netherlands who lives close to me (I'm 21, live near Gorinchem), please message me XD

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04 Jul 2011, 10:27 am

nick007 wrote:

I came to the very sad realization that women will not think of me as anything more than a good friend that they can turn to for emotional support. I would love to have a relationship but I'm tired of ruining friendships by asking for more. I would like to have an companion sense a relationship is unattainable for me because I really HATE being alone & I HATE sleeping by myself; I mean sleep in the literal sense; I'm not looking for or desiring a sexual thing but I would be open to it. I believe I would fall in love with most anyone after I'm with em a while & I think she would eventually love me to because of the way I would take care of her & do what I can to see her happy. Even if she never loved me; I would still be quite happy with her as long as she wanted to stay with me. I've thought about the mail-order bride thing a lot but I don't have the money or independence skills to travel & do it. A couple friends have suggested before that I find a girl with a drug problem & keep her wired but that is extremely WRONG. I'd like some other suggestions on how to find a companion

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nick007 wrote:

Ditto on every point there. Except I'm a chick, so switch all the gender specific nouns and pronouns. Wow, I never thought I would find someone who wanted the same things out of a relationship that I do. I had always envisioned myself eventually compromising with someone so I wouldn't have to be alone, but this gives me hope that there really is someone out there for me. (I'm really hoping that didn't sound too creepy/stalkerish

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Good luck you two

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04 Jul 2011, 12:33 pm

Remember, use protection.

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04 Jul 2011, 12:36 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Remember, use protection.

I like riot shields.

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04 Jul 2011, 2:04 pm

Moog wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Remember, use protection.

I like riot shields.

I prefer flak jackets, they look cool.

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06 Jul 2011, 8:15 pm

Well guys we are a couple but we are not making plans to meet yet because we don't want to rush things & risk screwing it up. We don't live super close either; might be close to a day's driving distance away from each other.
I guess I cant make any more post here about being single & l shouldn't be crushing on Miranda Cosgrove anymore either thou I can still admire her consider her the best role model there is rite now as for as idols go.
Thanx for your support guys I really appreciate it

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06 Jul 2011, 8:16 pm

nick007 wrote:

I really appreciate it

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06 Jul 2011, 8:18 pm

Awww, how sweet. :heart:

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06 Jul 2011, 8:41 pm

I don't know what else to add, other than that we seem really compatible, and I can't stop smiling

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06 Jul 2011, 10:02 pm

nick007 wrote:

Only time I had a girl was when I was 20 & I was acting like a disturbed psychotic ass & wasn't even looking for a relationship at the time.

Just for future reference, sometimes it's better to keep things like that to yourself.

We've all been there, no need to blurt it out at the first opportunity.

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07 Jul 2011, 3:07 pm

I'm just catching this.

Congratulations Nick and Megz, and good luck. Megz, I think you and Nick will get along just fine.

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07 Jul 2011, 4:36 pm

Thanks guys! :heart:

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07 Jul 2011, 9:34 pm

Megz wrote:

I don't know what else to add, other than that we seem really compatible, and I can't stop smiling

That is freakin' awesome!! !

Congratulations!

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08 Feb 2012, 6:57 am

Great thread, and good luck!

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08 Feb 2012, 9:30 am

Errr

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