I came to the very sad realization that women will not think of me as anything more than a good friend that they can turn to for emotional support. I would love to have a relationship but I'm tired of ruining friendships by asking for more. I would like to have an companion sense a relationship is unattainable for me because I really HATE being alone & I HATE sleeping by myself; I mean sleep in the literal sense; I'm not looking for or desiring a sexual thing but I would be open to it. I believe I would fall in love with most anyone after I'm with em a while & I think she would eventually love me to because of the way I would take care of her & do what I can to see her happy. Even if she never loved me; I would still be quite happy with her as long as she wanted to stay with me. I've thought about the mail-order bride thing a lot but I don't have the money or independence skills to travel & do it. A couple friends have suggested before that I find a girl with a drug problem & keep her wired but that is extremely WRONG. I'd like some other suggestions on how to find a companion
nick007 wrote:
I came to the very sad realization that women will not think of me as anything more than a good friend that they can turn to for emotional support. I would love to have a relationship but I'm tired of ruining friendships by asking for more. I would like to have an companion sense a relationship is unattainable for me because I really HATE being alone & I HATE sleeping by myself; I mean sleep in the literal sense; I'm not looking for or desiring a sexual thing but I would be open to it. I believe I would fall in love with most anyone after I'm with em a while & I think she would eventually love me to because of the way I would take care of her & do what I can to see her happy.
Ditto on every point there. Except I'm a chick, so switch all the gender specific nouns and pronouns. Wow, I never thought I would find someone who wanted the same things out of a relationship that I do. I had always envisioned myself eventually compromising with someone so I wouldn't have to be alone, but this gives me hope that there really is someone out there for me. (I'm really hoping that didn't sound too creepy/stalkerish
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