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ValentineWiggin
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04 Aug 2011, 12:47 pm

...do you really wanna date someone THAT passionate about drug use?
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04 Aug 2011, 10:08 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:

...do you really wanna date someone THAT passionate about drug use?
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Exactly,I think it says more about her than you.Someone who puts that much of a priority on her pot is also likely someone who spends a great deal of her time stoned .I mean to have that ''pot usage '' as a requirement for a potential partner is very narrow minded and limiting..In her eyes if you were overwieght ,jobless but smoked pot you would be a great catch ,not someone I would want to begin a relationship with .

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06 Aug 2011, 4:54 pm

I have seen a fair amount of judgmental attitude from drug users re: nonusers. Another factor is their paranoia about nonusers possibly narcing on them. I've been on both sides of this. But one factor I have never seen mentioned is that a significant other can never compete with The Buzz. There is never an argument with The Buzz. There is never a difference of opinion. There is never an objectionable behavior. The Buzz will be better than you, no matter what. It's worth thinking about limiting your options to sober partners.

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06 Aug 2011, 11:34 pm

Erisad wrote:

Don't worry about it, you don't wanna date a pothead anyway. :/

True. =)
Maybe she just feels uncomfortable around people that do not smoke because she feels they might judge her? Nothing is worse than being stoned with sober people, you get really paranoid. (I guess it depends on the person and how well you know them...)

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07 Aug 2011, 12:59 am

Girlfriends of smokers tend to spend a lot less money on pot. Fact of nature.

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07 Aug 2011, 6:24 am

sagan wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Don't worry about it, you don't wanna date a pothead anyway. :/

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07 Aug 2011, 10:14 pm

sterfry wrote:

Girlfriends of smokers tend to spend a lot less money on pot. Fact of nature.

Yes, know far too many girls that have gone out with a guy just because they have access to copious amounts of free drugs with him... :shrug:

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07 Aug 2011, 10:48 pm

mesona wrote:

on a dating site I am on me and this girl share over 95% of things in common/ same anwers to th test questions. She might even be a bigger fan of our hobbies than I am. I sent her a nice worded email about wanting to chat asked her a few questions about this show or this book or what she thought when this happened and asked her about a ring tone she said she had I been looking forever for. I got nothing back but she did look at my profile so it must have cought her eye. I asked her in a new email why I failed her screening and all she said was "sorry, I dont date people that do not smoke pot" Really thats her answer?

Sounds like a good time to try out new things... :wink:

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09 Aug 2011, 9:06 pm

Erisad wrote:

Don't worry about it, you don't wanna date a pothead anyway. :/

Amen to that. Smoking pot is criminal; do you really want to become involved with a criminal? She IS NOT worth it. Find a nicer, weed-free girl that actually accepts you for the way you are.

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09 Aug 2011, 9:10 pm

sgrannel wrote:

Or maybe she rejected you because she knows you won't know where to get pot and buy it for her. It's illegal, too, and it says something about your personality that you don't deal with the glamorous and exciting criminal underworld, and are perhaps not equipped to deal with all the treachery etc. that sometimes goes with operating outside the law.

http://www.annarbor.com/news/crime/man-shot-wednesday-night-in-downtown-ann-arbor-during-drug-deal/

Or maybe she smokes so much of it that it's a significant financial burden, which someone, who doesn't smoke it, is likely to complain about.

Impeccable logic. I could not have worded it better myself.

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09 Aug 2011, 10:14 pm

mesona wrote:

where is the logic in this?

There is None, my friend! Trying to rationalize peoples dating preferences is like throwing bricks in the Ocean, go figure. Stoners seem to like other stoners so they can share the experience of getting high. Some b*****s won't even consider a guy who uses any kind of drug for recreation. Find yourself a straightedge chick.

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