22 Jul 2011, 3:11 pm
sagan wrote:
Soo, Im really shy. Painfully. I do not understand people so I just avoid them.
And people often misinterpret this and think Im just a b***h... And I try to seem nice, but am always pretty quiet with people I dont know. And since I am not overly emotional and out there everyone thinks I am arrogant and mean and that I dislike them.
On top of this I am completely introverted, and can go days or weeks without talking to anyone, mainly because I dont think about it. So the little friends I do have, slowly get mad or forget me.
So if I cant even keep friend, how will I ever find a boyfriend or something? Is this even something I want? I feel like I might be missing out on a lot, but am not sure how to go about changing things...
Whats a workaround to this? Im 24, cute, smart, and apparently undateable.
Suggestions? What do you guys do?
And people often misinterpret this and think Im just a b***h... And I try to seem nice, but am always pretty quiet with people I dont know. And since I am not overly emotional and out there everyone thinks I am arrogant and mean and that I dislike them.
On top of this I am completely introverted, and can go days or weeks without talking to anyone, mainly because I dont think about it. So the little friends I do have, slowly get mad or forget me.
So if I cant even keep friend, how will I ever find a boyfriend or something? Is this even something I want? I feel like I might be missing out on a lot, but am not sure how to go about changing things...
Whats a workaround to this? Im 24, cute, smart, and apparently undateable.
Suggestions? What do you guys do?
Undateable? Certainly not, but this feeling of "missing out" could be the actual root of the problem. If your truly happy with the life you lead then companionship will be adding to your happiness and is not something that seems like it completes you. Trust me, missing out on unnecessary heartbreak is something I would have chosen over the situation I'm currently in now
23 Jul 2011, 12:55 am
Yes I guess we are all kind of the same. Thats why we are here =) Well its good being understood. At home people just think im crazy and weird and dont understand why its so hard. 
Eventually Ill find a really cute, weird guy just like me. 
23 Jul 2011, 1:23 am
23 Jul 2011, 3:11 am
23 Jul 2011, 11:50 am
23 Jul 2011, 12:19 pm
sagan wrote:
Nop... I live in New York.. But its sooo hot right now Im thinking of moving to Alaska..
Boo was right. I'll very likely be in Alaska by mid to end 2012. See you there
23 Jul 2011, 2:19 pm
23 Jul 2011, 3:12 pm
23 Jul 2011, 4:24 pm
23 Jul 2011, 8:58 pm
Surfman wrote:
Forget that posey model scene, its full of NT codes and markers its impossible for an aspie
I have been watching people closely for long periods of time
There are viable options for high functioning autistics, but it comes down to discernment.
Only a few men from a crowd, will ever be suitable options. The rest is just time wasting and disappointments that no one needs.
Be prepared to do the forward gestures, as these suitable guys might not even notice you
I have been watching people closely for long periods of time
There are viable options for high functioning autistics, but it comes down to discernment.
Only a few men from a crowd, will ever be suitable options. The rest is just time wasting and disappointments that no one needs.
Be prepared to do the forward gestures, as these suitable guys might not even notice you
yes and yes.
23 Jul 2011, 9:04 pm
23 Jul 2011, 9:06 pm
sagan wrote:
Soo, Im really shy. Painfully. I do not understand people so I just avoid them.
And people often misinterpret this and think Im just a b***h... And I try to seem nice, but am always pretty quiet with people I dont know. And since I am not overly emotional and out there everyone thinks I am arrogant and mean and that I dislike them.
On top of this I am completely introverted, and can go days or weeks without talking to anyone, mainly because I dont think about it. So the little friends I do have, slowly get mad or forget me.
So if I cant even keep friend, how will I ever find a boyfriend or something? Is this even something I want? I feel like I might be missing out on a lot, but am not sure how to go about changing things...
Whats a workaround to this? Im 24, cute, smart, and apparently undateable.
Suggestions? What do you guys do?
And people often misinterpret this and think Im just a b***h... And I try to seem nice, but am always pretty quiet with people I dont know. And since I am not overly emotional and out there everyone thinks I am arrogant and mean and that I dislike them.
On top of this I am completely introverted, and can go days or weeks without talking to anyone, mainly because I dont think about it. So the little friends I do have, slowly get mad or forget me.
So if I cant even keep friend, how will I ever find a boyfriend or something? Is this even something I want? I feel like I might be missing out on a lot, but am not sure how to go about changing things...
Whats a workaround to this? Im 24, cute, smart, and apparently undateable.
Suggestions? What do you guys do?
You sound kind of like me, except for the b***h/as*hole part....
Or maybe I do seem like a dickhead....I really don't know.
Im really shy and introverted and yet again Im going through another period of my life without friends. My best advice is to just keep trying. There's no sense in beating yourself over it and giving up.
23 Jul 2011, 9:07 pm
sagan wrote:
Yes I guess we are all kind of the same. Thats why we are here =) Well its good being understood. At home people just think im crazy and weird and dont understand why its so hard.
Eventually Ill find a really cute, weird guy just like me.
Eventually Ill find a really cute, weird guy just like me.
Keep up that attitude and you'll do fine.
23 Jul 2011, 10:12 pm
23 Jul 2011, 10:16 pm
23 Jul 2011, 10:23 pm
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