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01 Aug 2011, 10:55 am

I would end it. I'm super straight. XD And it would really bug me because they didn't tell me. I'd get paranoid they were hiding other stuff from me.



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01 Aug 2011, 10:56 am

Wouldn't care. I fell in love with who they were, why would I care if they didn't feel the gender they physically were?



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01 Aug 2011, 11:01 am

Honestly I would be 'eeked'.

No, it won't work.



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01 Aug 2011, 11:19 am

I'd probably be shocked at first, but if the "trans" was good enough to fool me into being attracted... I'd give it a try...



...well, unless her clitoris was bigger than my penis! :P


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01 Aug 2011, 11:35 am

Spazzergasm wrote:
I would end it. I'm super straight. XD And it would really bug me because they didn't tell me. I'd get paranoid they were hiding other stuff from me.


yes, my thoughts exactly.



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01 Aug 2011, 12:45 pm

it would be pretty sexy, and kinda neat.


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01 Aug 2011, 12:48 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
it would be pretty sexy, and kinda neat.


Especially if it was a ftm. YUM!


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01 Aug 2011, 12:52 pm

But.. Their junk isn't real!! !



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01 Aug 2011, 1:00 pm

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But.. Their junk isn't real!! !


Uh, yeah it is. It's actually quite ingenious how the transformations are done. Absolutely no tissue is "wasted".



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01 Aug 2011, 1:01 pm

don't care what equipment they were born with. what i care about is what they feel inside and how they want to express themselves sexually. to me there is something beautiful about people whose outward body an inner self do not necessarily align. or people who don't put their gender, sexuality or preferences into predefined boxes. i am drawn to them especially.


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01 Aug 2011, 1:06 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
don't care what equipment they were born with. what i care about is what they feel inside and how they want to express themselves sexually. to me there is something beautiful about people whose outward body an inner self do not necessarily align. or people who don't put their gender, sexuality or preferences into predefined boxes. i am drawn to them especially.


Oh, definitely. There's just something about ftm transsexuals... :oops:

I should shut up now.


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01 Aug 2011, 1:31 pm

mv wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
But.. Their junk isn't real!! !


Uh, yeah it is. It's actually quite ingenious how the transformations are done. Absolutely no tissue is "wasted".


I'm sorry, it so isn't. It used to be a vagina. And it's sterile.



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01 Aug 2011, 1:41 pm

Spazzergasm wrote:
mv wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
But.. Their junk isn't real!! !


Uh, yeah it is. It's actually quite ingenious how the transformations are done. Absolutely no tissue is "wasted".


I'm sorry, it so isn't. It used to be a vagina. And it's sterile.

if a burn victim has tissue from his thigh that is grafted to replace burned skin on his forehead, would you say it's not a real forehead?

it's not what the sexual parts are made of that matters to me, it's the intent behind how they will be used.

never mind surgical changes... if a woman really feels she is a man and senses in her mind that she should have been born with a penis, and she pulls on a strap-on dick that she feels represents that penis, then that penis is as real as any other. just like a prosthetic limb.


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01 Aug 2011, 1:54 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
mv wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
But.. Their junk isn't real!! !


Uh, yeah it is. It's actually quite ingenious how the transformations are done. Absolutely no tissue is "wasted".


I'm sorry, it so isn't. It used to be a vagina. And it's sterile.

if a burn victim has tissue from his thigh that is grafted to replace burned skin on his forehead, would you say it's not a real forehead?

it's not what the sexual parts are made of that matters to me, it's the intent behind how they will be used.

never mind surgical changes... if a woman really feels she is a man and senses in her mind that she should have been born with a penis, and she pulls on a strap-on dick that she feels represents that penis, then that penis is as real as any other. just like a prosthetic limb.


Sorry, I still disagree. :P
The forehead would be real because it's the bone. I don't think a strap on is a penis, either.
You believe the intent makes the sexual organ, I believe the biology does. We can agree to disagree!



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01 Aug 2011, 2:09 pm

No. The bits I may be able to handle. The following would be an issue though:

Skull shape (yes, I can tell). Hands shape.
MtF - Hairy back/chest/face: potential stubble (not a fan of this in WtW either)
Voice - not a fan of fake Michal Jackson voices
Excessive femininity - don't care much for this in women either



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01 Aug 2011, 2:10 pm

Since I really want to have biological children (as opposed to adoption), this situation would be untenable from the start. I know science can do wonders with conception these days, but it's not the same.