Inner beauty Myth

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I am honest, caring, respectful, and have all the other qualities that women should look for. Why can't I attract NTs? Why can't I attract other Aspies? What am I doing wrong?

Tim

You're not wrong. The women are.

Woman like the Salesman type of person, someone who is good at selling a lot of cars and a whole bunch of other stuff too by lying, cheating, manipulating and wheeling and dealing and an opportunist. They can convince an Eskimo to buy ice-cream. Even though most woman are looking for this type of guy, they don’t want him to cheat on her or do anything dishonest to her, but everyone else is fear game.

I try selling myself by being honest, and apparently, what I have to offer is not what Nts or other Aspies want. How can I sell myself then without lying to people?

Tim

I found out there is a forum and chat room on Aspie Affection, but I have to have a paid membership. And I don't have a debit card. So my hope of ever having an Aspie girlfriend is zero.

Somehow I get the feeling that chatroom is probably pretty empty most of the time. I wouldn't pay for a membership. Especially not considering that there aren't that many people that use it.

Pretty much everyone there is also here.


And there's always hope. Even for me. More so because I believe I have a chance.

Maybe I am going to die cold and alone never having known the love of a woman peniless in some street. But maybe I'm going to be the guy who goes down in history as the man who saves the world.

And you know, there's something to be said for trying despite thinking that you aren't going to get anywhere. More so when people are calling you stupid for making the attempt. People probably called Ghandi an idiot too.

You must think females are stupid.

But, for God's sake, THEY ARE!! !

No more than men.

But not in the same way as men are.

Aspie Affection is a joke. You can make a profile for free, but if you try searching, you will see there's most likely not even another person where you live, let alone someone of the opposite sex and approximately same age. Aspie Affection is basically an extension of WrongPlanet.net.

Tim your problem is just a proof for the title of this thread: Inner beauty is just a myth.

Your problem: You have a very good inner beauty but you are overweighted and short so you don't have the outer beauty which is EVERYTHING in dating .

solution :
1- Go to gym , make mucles and if you don't have already a good sense of humor then try to be funnier with women ....muscles , hair style , strong arms , car --> all these things will give you more and more confidence. And if you are good in some sport game go and join some club of this specific sport , if you'r not then go more to gym. YOU have at least a bit SEXY to get a girl.

2-Stop being the "I am a nice honest friend to you " attitude with women but be " I am a confident man who wants you all of you " ' attitude ---> not that the second attitude won't work if you are unattractive so you need to make the step 1 first before this

I know that It might sound sooo shallow ....but try to prove me wrong !

Doesn't sound shallow to me. It's also good advice for reasons beyond attracting women.