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18 Aug 2011, 3:20 pm

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I think it's because men are simpler than women are as far as what they need in a partner, so it all makes sense. As for the last part, women are more likely to be passive aggressive, so that might indicate a higher likelihood of Internet tracking. After all, guys usually aren't as bad when it comes to other guys dating their ex.

So yeah ladies, if you can cook, clean, and give good blowjobs, then men will fall in love with you all the time. To this day, men still aren't sure what it is that women want.


I can tend to fall in love pretty easily even if a women only shows a slight bit of interest in me but I still have some standards, I want more than just some boring women who can only cook, clean, and as you put it "give good blowjobs"?



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18 Aug 2011, 4:55 pm

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i assumed females were quicker to fall in love and tended to fall in love more often. i was obviously wrong. i tend to fall in love very quickly, but i had no idea that maybe i could be different from some other females.


I don't fall in love easily.


I don't either anymore. I kinda wish I did. >.<



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18 Aug 2011, 4:57 pm

Erisad wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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i assumed females were quicker to fall in love and tended to fall in love more often. i was obviously wrong. i tend to fall in love very quickly, but i had no idea that maybe i could be different from some other females.


I don't fall in love easily.


I don't either anymore. I kinda wish I did. >.<


I'm glad I don't. It means (at least to me in some twisted way... :lol: ) that when I do fall in love it's more meaningful and hopefully stands a better chance of success and maybe even longevity.


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18 Aug 2011, 5:05 pm

i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


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18 Aug 2011, 5:06 pm

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i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


Oh... well in that case I'm right there with you.


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18 Aug 2011, 5:12 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Erisad wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
i assumed females were quicker to fall in love and tended to fall in love more often. i was obviously wrong. i tend to fall in love very quickly, but i had no idea that maybe i could be different from some other females.


I don't fall in love easily.


I don't either anymore. I kinda wish I did. >.<


I'm glad I don't. It means (at least to me in some twisted way... :lol: ) that when I do fall in love it's more meaningful and hopefully stands a better chance of success and maybe even longevity.


That's a good way of looking at it. :D



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18 Aug 2011, 5:21 pm

A lot of those men just want their balls emptying.



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18 Aug 2011, 5:27 pm

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A lot of those men just want their balls emptying.


Do you mean a lot of these men mistook lust for love?

It's definitely possible.


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18 Aug 2011, 5:31 pm

I don't think anybody can know if somebody is "the one" after just one date. For me, it would take about a year of dating before I make long-term plans with someone.



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18 Aug 2011, 5:35 pm

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I don't think anybody can know if somebody is "the one" after just one date. For me, it would take about a year of dating before I make long-term plans with someone.


Yeah? While I don't think one date is enough to know, one year is a bit long for me. With my ex husband, we were moved in and engaged by the time a year rolled around.

Certainly, I can go slower, but :shrug: It depends more on the relationship itself.


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18 Aug 2011, 6:00 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


Oh... well in that case I'm right there with you.


same but don't ask me to express it with words because i wont. I am too scared to ever put myself out there that vulnerably nomatter much i love someone. They have to tell me first so i don't make a fool of myself. :lol:


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18 Aug 2011, 6:02 pm

Solvejg wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


Oh... well in that case I'm right there with you.


same but don't ask me to express it with words because i wont. I am too scared to ever put myself out there that vulnerably nomatter much i love someone. They have to tell me first so i don't make a fool of myself. :lol:


I can say the words "I love you", but it takes time. :oops:


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18 Aug 2011, 6:07 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Solvejg wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


Oh... well in that case I'm right there with you.


same but don't ask me to express it with words because i wont. I am too scared to ever put myself out there that vulnerably nomatter much i love someone. They have to tell me first so i don't make a fool of myself. :lol:


I can say the words "I love you", but it takes time. :oops:


i can too but it will be a long time after i feel those feelings. gossiping about how i feel about another person tp whoever will listen except the said person, i can do that well :P


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18 Aug 2011, 6:36 pm

Solvejg wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Solvejg wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
i don't fall in love often, just really quickly.


Oh... well in that case I'm right there with you.


same but don't ask me to express it with words because i wont. I am too scared to ever put myself out there that vulnerably nomatter much i love someone. They have to tell me first so i don't make a fool of myself. :lol:


I can say the words "I love you", but it takes time. :oops:


i can too but it will be a long time after i feel those feelings. gossiping about how i feel about another person tp whoever will listen except the said person, i can do that well :P


I noticed. :lol:


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18 Aug 2011, 6:52 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Do you mean a lot of these men mistook lust for love?

It's definitely possible.


Yes. But some really probably want to love the woman, but just want their bollocks drained. Just as women might feel the same way.



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18 Aug 2011, 7:55 pm

I'm sure these men who "fall in love at first sight" can't tell the difference between genuine love and infatuation.