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CrinklyCrustacean
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20 Aug 2011, 8:48 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I have a Monday girl and a Friday girl.

And I have a Weekend girl too!!

However, my favorite girl is the 29th February girl, I always miss this one a lot.

And what were the odds of finding her? :P



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21 Aug 2011, 6:55 am

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I have a Monday girl and a Friday girl.

And I have a Weekend girl too!!

However, my favorite girl is the 29th February girl, I always miss this one a lot.

And what were the odds of finding her? :P


Zero, like all the other girls.



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21 Aug 2011, 7:57 am

I don't really like to name names on the internet, hence referring to people by day of the week or location or whatnot.



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21 Aug 2011, 8:19 pm

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Question is: do you want to be with a person that on the first date gets all smoochy and fondle-happy with what is, in essence, a complete stranger (you)?


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You say that as if it's a bad thing?? :?
exactly. and they were conversing for a month, not just randomly running into each other in a bar.


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OP, i don't really think she sounds desperate... not that i really understand what that means. so scratch that. maybe she is desperate, i dunno. do you think if she is desperate then she is lower status or something?


Even if they had been chatting online for a year it does not change the fact that on the first in-person meeting she did this. I tend to analyze the grey clouds before I notice any silver lining on any situation... and in this case I see something that warrants caution.

Even the OP thinks its odd. Personally I would have a hard time trusting someone like that but that is just me.