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22 Aug 2011, 12:16 pm

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well it will be interesting to see if anybody here does relate or find these helpful..... which was the original point of the post lol. i think i have failed though.


I think you bring up interesting phenomena, but I also think things are less black-and-white than you have presented them. I think we're all different. I would LOVE to see a brain scan of myself to see how it compares to other people's (men, women, people in vegetative comas, chimpanzees, whatever), but ultimately it doesn't much matter to me because I feel completely solitary, no matter whether similarities are noticed or comparisons made.


things like this HAVE to be black and white for two reasons:
1) its more useful to give 100% of people something they can relate to in part
2) i would have had to have written a novel to cover every variation

maybe everybody on this forum is here to find something they can disagree with, which is also fine lol. but i will probably not try so hard to be interesting in future.

edit: just to piss you off further, there are four personalities. introvert and extrovert. these are divided into emotional and unemotional. the emotional introvert always feels like they are solitary and can't be put in a box. so there's your box to be put into. :twisted:



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22 Aug 2011, 1:27 pm

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maybe everybody on this forum is here to find something they can disagree with, which is also fine lol. but i will probably not try so hard to be interesting in future.


I don't think people are here to find something they disagree on. But if an idea or theory is put out there, then it is likely that the idea will be challenged, discussed, debated.

If you continue to make similar posts, which I hope you will, you will probably find that a substantial amount of people will agree with your ideas at some point. It's nothing personal, just the way WP folk often are.



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22 Aug 2011, 3:30 pm

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I think you bring up interesting phenomena, but I also think things are less black-and-white than you have presented them. I think we're all different. I would LOVE to see a brain scan of myself to see how it compares to other people's (men, women, people in vegetative comas, chimpanzees, whatever), but ultimately it doesn't much matter to me because I feel completely solitary, no matter whether similarities are noticed or comparisons made.


Well put. That sounds about right to me.

I've read that men have larger brains than women, on average. Then again, I've also read that Neanderthals had larger brains than Cro Magnons (although recent research has shown that most humans are descended in part from Neanderthals, so maybe Neanderthals don’t deserve their oafish reputation).



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22 Aug 2011, 7:34 pm

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I would LOVE to see a brain scan of myself to see how it compares to other people's (men, women, people in vegetative comas, chimpanzees, whatever)


I think my brain would compare favourably to a vegatative chimpanzee


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22 Aug 2011, 7:41 pm

I dunno if I've met many typical women then, or maybe typical women put me off so bad that I drop them like bad habits.

What part of the brain causes someone to talk on the phone longer? I'd suspect that's the part of the women's brain that is all out of proportion :)



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22 Aug 2011, 7:43 pm

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I'm not sure if this is a well known fact but men and womens brains are made of different stuff.


I heard that women are made of sugar and spice and all things nice, and I assume that goes for the brain as well.

Don't ask what men's brains are made of it's too horrible


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22 Aug 2011, 7:44 pm

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I'm not sure if this is a well known fact but men and womens brains are made of different stuff.


I heard that women are made of sugar and spice and all things nice, and I assume that goes for the brain as well.

Don't ask what men's brains are made of it's too horrible


Sounds like zombie-logic to me.



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22 Aug 2011, 7:49 pm

Knifey - I've heard its really a double-edged sword. While for many women the word 'focus' is completely alien to them, the problem that comes with it is that they can't filter anything out. Bonus - better social grace, can multitask like champs because its second nagure, downfall - a bit of chronic OCD (comparatively) in recompense, add hormonal chemistry that we should be eternally grateful that we never ended up with. That said though, when a guy has a fast track mind and is thinking constantly he's still thinking in serial mode, which can possibly feel similar in a way but its still not the same.


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22 Aug 2011, 7:52 pm

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Don't ask what men's brains are made of it's too horrible

Probably beer brats and all kind of other tail-gating odds and ends.


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22 Aug 2011, 7:56 pm

According to this and everything else I've ever read on the subject I have a male-differentiated brain. I don't think all female aspies are that way though. I bet some of the more artsy types have female-differentiated brains.

Edit: actually I probably have a hybrid type brain. I have the thinking 10 things at once and multi-tasking bit down. But if I had to choose just one, my brain is more male-differentiated than female-differentiated.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:53 pm

When I'm stressed out I have the stereotypical male reaction. When someone I am very close to is stressed out I have a stereotypically female reaction of wanting to fix it for them.



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22 Aug 2011, 9:02 pm

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When someone I am very close to is stressed out I have a stereotypically female reaction of wanting to fix it for them.

?? I thought that was considered the stereotypical male response. IOW, "fixing" as opposed to empathizing with words (and whatever else).



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22 Aug 2011, 9:23 pm

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?? I thought that was considered the stereotypical male response. IOW, "fixing" as opposed to empathizing with words (and whatever else).

Lol, yeah I saw that as well.


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22 Aug 2011, 10:20 pm

In the novels that I write, my protagonists are always women....being a dude myself, I'm sure glad nobody informed my brain it's supposed to think like a man! Which, I assure you, I can if need be. I've chased after purse snatchers before and run a burglar out of my apartment (fight); conversely people have told me I'm a fantastic listener.

Pardon me, but I guess I don't see the purpose of these generalized threads?



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22 Aug 2011, 10:38 pm

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Pardon me, but I guess I don't see the purpose of these generalized threads?


it is a scientific discovery? If only 15% of people on a drug experience explosive diarrhea do you think they shouldn't put it on the label because it doesn't apply to everybody? wtf is with you people, i just point out two research papers that have done significant scientific trials on something and you all go... "hmmm naaaaah i don't think so."



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22 Aug 2011, 10:46 pm

This would explain a lot. argh :lol: