How often do you see an "ugly" person

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I have to say I agree with hale on this point. I understand that for some people attraction is more appearance driven than others, but even so you need to keep in mind that girls are people first and foremost - with minds and personalities - and not bodies.

typical girl opinions again......lol

appearances arent everything, but they count for alot. There are women who are attractive, and there are women who are not ..........simple as THAT and my opinion isn't shot. Go down in history as people who thought........for such a second that fame could be bought and such time couldnt re-enact those who fought.......

sorry i'm drunk right now that was my attempt at rapping freestyle. Yea I expected some typical responses from girls.

I really don't care if girls agree with me I know you won't, and that is kind of the point.

There are fat people of both sexes. If I was Mr. Mc FATass then I wouldn't have posted this. I am a little skinny, I am just saying I wouldn't never consider a girl over 180 pounds.

I am speaking av en double standard of guys here having to work on their personality(regardless of weight), but girls don't have to do shiza and can still be overweight and not a big deal, and then it is all "inner beauty for them"

Its BS. I am not overweight, so I wouldn't want a girl who is significantly more than I am. That is not the definition of being shallow. It is definitely a double standard.

If a guy was overweight.....nope that is unacceptable you f*****g fat ass. But if it is a girl, "You are so shallow it is all about personality and inner beauty"

what I was trying to say in my OP was against all of this. It was just that I honestly believe that most girls who aren't "obese" are attractive to me.........thats what I was trying to say,

My bad If it didn't come out that way...if a girl weights more than me, then that is a significant turn off

Wow you really are digging yourself into a hole aren't you? Who here was criticising overweight males?



Why are you making a thread about it? No-one cares what your personal preferences are unless it's in a thread stating "what do you find attractive in girls" etc etc.

Seems more like an excuse to b***h about something you find disgusting to me. Yeah, so you don't like fat girls. I don't like slouchy, skinny annoying men. I'm not making a thread about it.

Meh.

You're born into this world and then you die.

Everything else is just theory.

I gotta say, I'm seeing a whole lotta ugliness right here on this thread.

I'm sure they all feel special now you put them in the same category as the ugliest woman they can think of.

I think I see an ugly person every time i go out in public. But i think jennifer garner is ugly (her face is so jagged and pointy it could sink the titanic) and people think she is good looking. So i guess some people are just fussier than others.

But what is weird about "beauty" for me is bodies are pretty much irrelevant. I look at the face and thats pretty much all I see. which would be bad for people who are ugly but try to compensate with a hot body which is a lot of people.

Look at all the liars in this thread. Of course looks matter, even though you say otherwise.

How do you explain me being ridiculed by most females (even some males) growing up and in the present.

I believe the stupid idiots that I hung out with growing up only kept me around to make fun of how ugly I was. All it took was for someone to point at my face and whole room would start laughing.


Oh and girls were the worst. Of course the stupid b*****s wouldn't even give me the time of day because of how my face looked. If they weren't laughing or making fun of me like the others, they'd sometimes fake sympathy for me when I was being ridiculed. Like, "Ya'll need to leave him alone" "he hasn't done anything" "he's not that ugly". Then in the next week or so, they're f*****g or dating the idiots that made fun of me. I've seen how it works.

To answer the OP's question it's very often because I look in the mirror quite a few times everyday.

Not very often. Usually what makes people ugly to me is mannerisms, unkemptness, and stench.
Although I have unfortunately seen some people who do have a very unattractive physical appearance.

I agree with Hale_Bopp as well. I don't appreciate someone making a post telling me what size I should be and what I should look like. I should be the one to decide and not some guy who's looking for a popsicle stick. If you don't mind, I'm going to cook some spaghetti.

I never lie about myself as a person, especially when it comes to saying how proud I am of my strength and appearance. You're just jealous of me because I look like a rock star.

The last physically "ugly" person I saw up close was ugly by virtue of someone having splashed acid in their face.

The person that did it was truly ugly by virtue of their sadistic glee in having destroyed someone else's life.

Yeah that is sick. That's one of the ugliest things ever.

To me:

Ugly is a vibe.
Ugly is a sociopath
Ugly is a Psychopath
Ugly is a person consumed in their own pride
Ugly is jealousy
Ugly is sadism
Ugly is sarcasm
Ugly is having no respect for the fellow souls on this earth

The only truly ugly person I've ever seen happened when I was doing volunteer work in Ukraine back in 1995. A Ukrainian friend and I were exploring Kyiv, and ended up in a nefarious part of the city. We stumbled into what looked like a small tent city, but didn't get far as the first person we met so utterly frightened us that we turned tail and ran. Turns out we had come upon a small encampment of refugees from the Chernobyl nuclear disaster. I couldn't tell if the person we met was male or female because the face was so deformed from radiation burns and growths. It was a truly visceral frightening visage.

Of course I was a lot younger then, a lot less open-minded, less worldly. But to this day I can't say I wouldn't have the same reaction, unless I was somehow prepared in advance for seeing their condition. I feel an immense sadness for these people now, though they may not even be alive anymore.

To paraphrase a famous movie line: "Ugly is as ugly does." To me, anyone can be ugly just by the way they act or treat others. For example, a former boss who thinks he is mr. awesome (in every sense of the word), & to whom women usually fawn over (except me). I've seen his ugly side. Physically, he's very good looking, but with the way he treats women (we are only good for one thing, & only one thing), & the fact that I've seen him in action with his narrow mindset, makes him one of the ugliest people I've ever met. To me, attitude can make someone truly repulsive in my eyes. There are others that I've come to know as ugly for similar reasons.

Consequently, my hubby who is not mr. handsome....gets more attractive every day (to me). It's because he treats all people with respect & consideration unless they do something to make him lose his opinion of them. He recently got to see my ex-boss in action, & also has a lower opinion of him. Just because someone is good looking doesn't mean they can't be ugly.

Appearance wise, some people are just less attractive. Unless of course, I am looking at my own reflection. I really don't like anything about my appearance.