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The_Face_of_Boo
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18 Sep 2011, 4:58 am

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So I'm at this club in NYC watching a concert (Ghostland Observatory) minding my own business standing near the back observing the goings-on, all of a sudden I feel an arm around my waist: it's and extremely cute blonde asking me what I did for a living!



Did you check your wallet if it's still there?

Check everything in your pockets, your wallet, iPod...



Anyways, if it's not the case....
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Then she introduces me to her 4 very cute friends! Then she walks away to watch the concert some more.


NYC, here I come :lol:! !

But seriously, I'd be very careful if I were you, this isn't an usual behavior.

and a girl who's asking this question as the very first question (even before your name?! !), is more likely to be a gold-digger or sugar-daddy seeker.



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18 Sep 2011, 5:25 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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So I'm at this club in NYC watching a concert (Ghostland Observatory) minding my own business standing near the back observing the goings-on, all of a sudden I feel an arm around my waist: it's and extremely cute blonde asking me what I did for a living!



Did you check your wallet if it's still there?

Check everything in your pockets, your wallet, iPod...



Anyways, if it's not the case....
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Then she introduces me to her 4 very cute friends! Then she walks away to watch the concert some more.


NYC, here I come :lol:! !

But seriously, I'd be very careful if I were you, this isn't an usual behavior.

and a girl who's asking this question as the very first question (even before your name?! !), is more likely to be a gold-digger or sugar-daddy seeker.


You may be right, but I have encountered that question among the first I have been asked (in non-flirting situations) all too often. It is a pet peeve of mine. It is almost as if they are asking how much money I make!


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18 Sep 2011, 5:28 am

Nice....congrats ;)

I'm curious...did you think of getting her phone number, or were you too overwhelmed?



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18 Sep 2011, 5:42 am

nice! I know how such an ego-boost feels like 8) it feels good man!

she must have really liked you if she chatted you up at a noisy concert too!


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18 Sep 2011, 6:34 am

Ghostland eh? Nice. I saw them last weekend in Maryland, or the end of their set anyway.



Oh, and yeah... you get her # too? And all your belongings still there?



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18 Sep 2011, 6:38 am

Did they happen to see you getting out of a Ferrari? ;)

lol j/k



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18 Sep 2011, 7:25 am

Congrats! :D



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18 Sep 2011, 8:39 am

Go on my son!! 'AVE ITTTTTT

:D :D :D


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18 Sep 2011, 9:31 am

Sounds good. Good example of the power of showing up and being presentable.

I think you should have fought the instinct for a protracted polite conversation and made more of the touch by joking about it. Then turned that into overt flirting.



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18 Sep 2011, 9:31 am

1. Yes my belongings are intact.
2. She was a little tipsy, which certainly helped.
3. No Ferrari - nothing is more useless than a car in NYC.
4. Stop trying to pi$$ on my parade! :wink:



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18 Sep 2011, 9:41 am

Random question: were any/most/all of the five from Connecticut?

This morning I saw a pic on Facebook of five girls somewhere in NYC last night, including a blonde named Laura. I don't know if they were at Ghostland, but considering the one of the five I do know - it might not surprise me though. I'm waiting for a small world moment...



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18 Sep 2011, 9:45 am

Quartz11 wrote:
Random question: were any/most/all of the five from Connecticut?

This morning I saw a pic on Facebook of five girls somewhere in NYC last night, including a blonde named Laura. I don't know if they were at Ghostland, might not surprise me though. I'm waiting for a small world moment...


Didn't ask where they were from - could very well have been Connecticut (or New Mexico, for that matter...)

Was the Laura in your photo hot? :wink:

(Jeebus - I'm going to milk this for all it's worth... :))



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18 Sep 2011, 1:21 pm

See. Your really NOT that bad. I'm glad you didn't wimp out and did go to the concert. Baby steps, who knows with a little more encounters you'll become more at ease.



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18 Sep 2011, 2:15 pm

Yeah good for you I guess.

Should would be nice to have that feeling. You know that someone maybe is interested in you.

I've never been hit on, flirted with, etc. At least not as a joke.



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18 Sep 2011, 2:37 pm

Grisha wrote:
1. Yes my belongings are intact.
2. She was a little tipsy, which certainly helped.
3. No Ferrari - nothing is more useless than a car in NYC.
4. Stop trying to pi$$ on my parade! :wink:


:lol:


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18 Sep 2011, 8:58 pm

Did I mention I got hit on last night! :D [/You'reMilkingItDude]

But seriously, one of the most interesting things I saw last night was ease with which (physical) Alphas score. Things I/we agonize over for years are absolutely trivial matters for them. They don't have to be funny, smart, or even nice to basically select the woman of their choice. Of course the women they select aren't exactly prizes (except maybe physically) themsleves.

Still, I can't help but be envious, even if they're playing a game I'm not interested in...