Hot young gold diggers and old rich men

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Chronos
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20 Sep 2011, 6:09 pm

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I don't get what the big deal about it is. Why do others care what kind of relationship a person has? People who don't know me may think it's creepy that I'm 28 & dating a 19year-old but I think most all of you who've read a few of my post know there is NOTHING creepy about it so I don't think I should be judging that couple or any others without knowing the details about their relationship like how they treat each other. I think it's great for them if it works for both of em


What actually provoked me to post it was the perspective by some of the men on here that they need money to get a girlfriend, but most of the guys on here want someone who will actually care for them rather than pretend to care for them. So they are not actually looking for the types of relationships I detailed.

In other words, they should not be concerned fixated with money so much because they don't actually want the type of woman and the type of relationship it will attract.



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20 Sep 2011, 6:14 pm

Chronos wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I don't get what the big deal about it is. Why do others care what kind of relationship a person has? People who don't know me may think it's creepy that I'm 28 & dating a 19year-old but I think most all of you who've read a few of my post know there is NOTHING creepy about it so I don't think I should be judging that couple or any others without knowing the details about their relationship like how they treat each other. I think it's great for them if it works for both of em


What actually provoked me to post it was the perspective by some of the men on here that they need money to get a girlfriend, but most of the guys on here want someone who will actually care for them rather than pretend to care for them. So they are not actually looking for the types of relationships I detailed.

In other words, they should not be concerned fixated with money so much because they don't actually want the type of woman and the type of relationship it will attract.


Exactly.

I keep saying this over and over, referencing my actual personal life experience as proof, and yet the delusion persists...

Money can buy you sex (either explicitly or implicitly) but not love: it's no more complicated than that.



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20 Sep 2011, 10:24 pm

Due to some personal experiences, I find the whole thing rather disturbing.

I would think most younger women however, know what there doing in wanting the guy for his money. We would hope most men dont actually think shes in love with him. I dont like seeing couples where its a younger women and an older man ick.

Tho I was in a younger girl/older man relationships once and Im pretty deeply ashamed by it. I dont tell people about this. He was an another aspie from this board who lured me due to my insecurities and making up lies about himself. I was very very insecure at the time. Honestly I think he'd make up lies about how he dated these other women. Idk how true they were or maybe because he was aspie, women were taking advantage of him and he thought they were gfs. I think he's truely disgusting and dumb and I dont hope any aspie guy to become like him. I doubt he'll ever find a solid gf. He goes after every single women that'll just talk to him.



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23 Sep 2011, 1:17 pm

Damn!... I thought this was a dating thread. :oops:







So disappointed! :shrug:





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23 Sep 2011, 1:24 pm

It wouldn't surprise me if a lot of these rich old men are lonely, feel their days counting down, they have money, but don't have something else. Perhaps in that sense they'd rather have something messed up than nothing at all. I'd agree with you though; I'm sure most 70/80 year old men with 20 and 30-somethings know that the draw probably isn't what they look like with their shirt off.


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23 Sep 2011, 2:16 pm

People like this are sick in my mind, If I was a rich man I would rather die alone then be with someone who is only with me for my money, I seriously don't see why these rich men do this in the first place, for just to look good and have sex? To me that sounds like a pathetic excuse of a human being to do.

I understand that they are allowed to do as they please but this draws the bloody line in my book, it's a very sick and unhealthy way of thinking and its very degrading for not only everyone around these type of rich men but to themselves as well, its like who are they kidding? Everyone can see through it but yet they still do it? It's sad.

Sorry if this offends.



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23 Sep 2011, 2:34 pm

Joking aside, I must say I have difficulty having any kind of respect for the young women one sees hanging off the belts of semi-geriatric super-rich men like little items of cheap jewelry.

As I see it, it's a form of socially acceptable prostitution - only, I'd probably have a deal more respect for prostitutes because they, at least, are honest about what they're doing.


Also, there are plenty of other very good reasons why I'd like to perform the "I don't like you very much" dance upon Donald Trump's face whilst wearing my best ice climbing crampons - aside from his being a vile, greedy, selfish, corrupt, domineering, heartless, ugly old tosser.

Not at all sorry if this offends.


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