Red flags on a woman.

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Oh, now I get it - duh

Speaks very poorly of all her exes. A sure sign of empathy problems or simplistic thinking. You're next.

We have a winner!! !

Ive never heard from sexysandra. I only hear from elizamark1. Apparently Morris Thompson died and left me a large sum of money. She suggests I contact her.



Either she's bringing a corporation with her (?) or she meant cooperation and has a thick slavic accent. Why she is coming to join me confuses me. I just want the money.

ok i laughed out loud. best response ever to the scammers ever.

(sexysandra doesn't exist lol - that was a made-up name similar to the scammers)

I want to meet this sexysandra .


red flags:

1) Throws all your clothes out and buys you new clothes so you are dressed how she wants.

2) kills you for insurance money.

Any lies that you detect. If she will lie about one thing, she may be deceiving you about a lot more.

Like the subject says, this is my list of things to watch for when dating a woman. This is a long list - 80 items. While any one of these items may not be a show-stopper (depending on your tastes), and all of them are unlikely to be present in any one woman, if you find yourself ticking off each of these in regards to your girlfriend or wife, then you may want to consider breaking it off, or at least seeking some sort of relationship counseling.

Then again, there may be nothing at all wrong with her, and it is all in your head.

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Red Flags

You may be in the presence of a "Red Flag" woman if she:

1. Asks for lunch money and a ride to school in the morning.
2. Repeatedly breaks your valued possessions, and claims it was an accident each time.
3. Seems to know, from the beginning of the relationship, as much about your personal life or work history (or both) as you do.
4. Wears provocative or revealing clothing and then gets mad when you check her out.
5. Gives you her number, yet never answers when you call or never returns your calls.
6. Takes your number, yet never calls you.
7. Seems interested in you, yet turns you down for a date.
8. Breaks your date at the last minute, especially if she offers a vague or lame excuse, or no excuse at all.
9. Doesn't show up at all, and without a word of apology or explanation.
10. Is always late or not ready when you pick her up for a date.
11. Insists on only the most expensive restaurants, the most exclusive clubs, and the latest band's concerts, and then expects you to fund the whole thing without a whimper.
12. Comes on to you heavily, gets you turned on, and then suddenly backs off.
13. Has extremely constricted or dilated pupils.
14. Flirts with other guys in your presence, especially with a rival or someone you don't like.
15. Tells you that "It's up to you," then mopes and pouts when you make the "wrong" choice.
16. Misbehaves, acts rudely, insults you, or pushes you around, and then acts imperious when you stand up for yourself.
17. Expects you to automatically know what she wants or likes.
18. Expects you to automatically know what you've done to offend her.
19. Contradicts herself by telling you what she wants or likes and then acts disappointed or insulted when you comply.
20. Expects you to take the initiative in everything, yet complains that you are domineering or pushy.
21. Offers to pay for something, yet complains because she ended up paying for it.
22. Treats sexual activity as a commodity or a reward, or withholds sex from you unless you comply with her wishes or give her what she wants..
23. Demands to know where the relationship is going.
24. Repeatedly calls you by another man's name (not her father's, brother's, son's, or the name of any other male relative).
25. Can not seem to commit to a date.
26. Is suddenly nice to you, or is suddenly nicer to you than usual.
27. Seems more interested in weddings, babies, and children than in you.
28. Tries to provoke a fight between you and another man, so she can make you jealous and test both your your Alpha Maleness and her ability to manipulate your feelings for her.
29. Compares you to her past boyfriend(s), her father, or her favorite fantasy male, and you always come up short.
30. Seem to need constant reassurance that you love her, or constantly refers to herself as "worthless".
31. Expects you to do things for her, yet finds something wrong with everything you do.
32. Has bad things to say about men whenever she gets frustrated with herself.
33. Reminds you of the sacrifices she's made for you.
34. Demands to know who you were just talking to, and won't accept anything other than an admission of infidelity.
35. Has a mustache that is darker than yours.
36. Introduces you to her parole officer.
37. Blames you for things that other men have done to her.
38. Expresses or implies that all men share the guilt in what one man has done.
39. Tries to get you to like her bratty children, her obnoxious pets, her snobby relatives, or her emo poetry.
40. Ignores you completely when her friends, kids, pets, or relatives are around.
41. Wants your relationship to be more spiritual.
42. Expresses or implies that you could become a better person
43. Tries to change you, then ignores you after you make the change.
44. Waits until you've finished doing something for her before telling you how she wanted it done.
45. Spends her entire paycheck on clothes, shoes, makeup, jewelry, and begs you for rent money.
46. Starts keeping some of her things in your home, usually where only another woman would look.
47. Has a tattoo that is related to death or violence.
48. Calls you several times each day while you're at work to check up on you.
49. Leaves personal items in your car, usually where you won't see them (but other women will).
50. Conveniently "forgets" how to do something she finds unpleasant.
51. Belittles or ignores your accomplishments.
52. Issues an ultimatum.
53. Progressively spend more and more of her time at your place until she has moved herself in.
54. Starts a conversation with the words, "We need to talk".
55. Keeps a record of all of your mistakes and shortcomings, and recites this record whenever there is a conflict.
56. Wants to know about your past girlfriends, right down to the most minute detail.
57. Fishes for compliments, and then won't accept them because she "had to ask".
58. Gives you the silent treatment for no apparent reason.
59. Has a deeper voice than yours.
60. Expects you to be nice to her girlfriends and female relatives, then accuses you of wanting to sleep with every one of them when you comply.
61. Asks if you think another woman is attractive, and then reacts badly when you say you do.
52. Takes exceptional interest in your job, your income, your investments, and your material wealth.
63. Is on a first-name basis with a lot of other men.
64. Lets you know right away that her daddy is a cop, a judge, or an ex-marine.
65. Checks the return addresses on letters addressed to you.
66. Checks your contacts list on your cell phone, and who you have on speed-dial.
67. Tries to crack the passwords on your computer, email accounts, or social websites.
68. Checks out all of your Facebook friends, as if screening for security risks.
69. Speaks to someone who is not there.
60. Insists that the neighbors are all watching her.
71. Asks to "borrow" the same amount of money on a regular basis.
72. Forgets how much money you have given her.
73. Is evasive about, or refuses to tell how she is spending the money you've given her.
74. Disappears for days or weeks at a time without explanation.
75. Considers any doubt or question of her actions or whereabouts to be a personal attack or insult.
76. Brings along a pet on dates.
77. Invites her friends to crash your date, and then expects you to pay their drink tabs without a whimper..
78. Invites her friends to stay at your place for days at a time, on your pay, and without a whimper.
79. Wakes up next to you in your bed and demands to know who the hell you are.
80. Rushes you into sex while insisting that she can't get pregnant.

^ good list

^ (To the list)

If any woman tried to do most of those with me, I would tell her to f**k off.

From my experience... deep seeded emotional issues... its something you find out in time... not exactly a big red flag that you can be aware of... but yes... relationship should be taken no further when you discover the girl has emotional "issues"... they become your issues... where they really should be the issue of a proffesional to treat...

also... (have a feeling someone will take this the wrong way for some reason)

Feminists... as in Women > Men attitude... now dont get me wrong... i believe that everyone is as equal as the next person... but feminist dedicate themselves to generalising and complaining about men... its irratating... especially when your boss is a lesbian feminist... definetly a red flag...

I think what it boils down to is that if you're a man, you want to be with a woman that likes and respects men. (And women want to be with a man that likes and respects women)

The "bad feminist" is someone who does not like and respect men. She may grudgingly tolerate their existence and look for a few "special" men that "aren't like the rest"... but fundamentally, holds the fact that you are a man against you. Not good partner material for any man.

You're only saying that because the patriarchy has warped your sensibilities...

I had to leave 20 "Red Flags" out because someone might object to their possible "Sexist" implications - mostly having to do with crying, shopping, and hormonal cycles.

Yeah that's why I said "most" in my sentence because there are some things that women simply cannot control which is fine to me because it shows they are only human.

Doesn't want to be in contact with me constantly.