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07 Oct 2011, 1:44 am

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I've read that quote 10+ times over and I still don't know what you mean.


What I mean is that you are expressing zero desire to pursue alternative solutions.

If you are in a f****d situation, the only positive choice you have is change.



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07 Oct 2011, 1:49 am

Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.



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07 Oct 2011, 1:56 am

MrEGuy wrote:
MR20 wrote:
I've read that quote 10+ times over and I still don't know what you mean.


What I mean is that you are expressing zero desire to pursue alternative solutions.

If you are in a f**** situation, the only positive choice you have is change.


So you're saying it's my fault that I don't pursue interests in things that not only bore me, but stuff I have no hope in understanding enough to be able to effectively debate another person about it.



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07 Oct 2011, 2:08 am

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Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.


?

It almost always seems to, in my experience, for those who have it.

A doctorate holder is not commonly found with a high-school drop-out.

Like attracts like.


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07 Oct 2011, 2:15 am

SadAspy wrote:
Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.


Growing up I was taught education meant everything. Without it you're a pathetic loser that doesn't have a future worth anything. You can barely work a fast food restaurant without a HS diploma nowadays.

Why do you think you see so many TV shows, programs, and commercials urging kids to stay in school? Why do so many athletes, important people, and different groups speaking at schools do the same?

I was taught you were supposed to graduate from HS, go to college, and after that get a good job/career to take care of yourself. You'd be somebody.

Sadly I missed that chance along with other things like prom, field trips out of state and country, dances, pep rallies, football games, having good times and making memories with friends, etc.

James Brown put it best


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oczqp8tytQ



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07 Oct 2011, 2:16 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.


?

It almost always seems to, in my experience, for those who have it.

A doctorate holder is not commonly found with a high-school drop-out.

Like attracts like.


I'll have to bite my tongue since I would just say something seen as misogynistic. Honestly, I was thinking of employment more than relationships. It's all about social skills and who you know....not your degrees or your grades.



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07 Oct 2011, 2:30 am

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SadAspy wrote:
Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.


?

It almost always seems to, in my experience, for those who have it.

A doctorate holder is not commonly found with a high-school drop-out.

Like attracts like.


I'll have to bite my tongue since I would just say something seen as misogynistic. Honestly, I was thinking of employment more than relationships. It's all about social skills and who you know....not your degrees or your grades.


Odd, to mention having misogynist thoughts at all if you don't intend to voice them.

The social skills thing jives with what I hear and read, repeatedly, about employment.

Hope there are exceptions, or I'm doomed. 8O


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07 Oct 2011, 2:56 am

SadAspy wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
Hey MR20,

I understand being resentful that you are ugly, friendless, broke, and socially awkward (all things that are true about me too). However, why do you think it's a negative that you're uneducated? Assuming you're in the US, education means nothing here.


?

It almost always seems to, in my experience, for those who have it.

A doctorate holder is not commonly found with a high-school drop-out.

Like attracts like.


I'll have to bite my tongue since I would just say something seen as misogynistic. Honestly, I was thinking of employment more than relationships. It's all about social skills and who you know....not your degrees or your grades.


What woman would want a slow, stupid, and uneducated man that they can't relate to? Bottom line, being smart and educated matters, in every facet of life.



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07 Oct 2011, 3:01 am

MR20 wrote:
Growing up I was taught education meant everything. Without it you're a pathetic loser that doesn't have a future worth anything. You can barely work a fast food restaurant without a HS diploma nowadays.

Why do you think you see so many TV shows, programs, and commercials urging kids to stay in school? Why do so many athletes, important people, and different groups speaking at schools do the same?

I was taught you were supposed to graduate from HS, go to college, and after that get a good job/career to take care of yourself. You'd be somebody.


Yeah, I was taught that too. Everyone in our generation was. That doesn't make it true.

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Odd, to mention having misogynist thoughts at all if you don't intend to voice them.


Okay...I really don't think women care about education at all. Sure, they care about earnings and that's correlated somewhat with education, but not nearly to the extent it used to be. A woman with a Phd. will pick a high school dropout over a man with a Phd. if the former is making more money.

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Hope there are exceptions, or I'm doomed.


Some guy will take care of you...don't worry. The same isn't true for men, as we are expected to always be the breadwinners, despite feminism.

The social skills thing jives with what I hear and read, repeatedly, about employment.

Hope there are exceptions, or I'm doomed. [/quote]



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07 Oct 2011, 3:13 am

Oh sweet Christ, Saddy, when in your stunted, frustrated, creepy little life have you ever had personal knowledge of a woman with a Phd? Honestly, now. An intelligent, educated woman wants a partner she can talk to. Turn off Real Housewives of SadApie's Imagination and go hang out at a respectable college. You'll find professors married to (surprise!) other professors.



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07 Oct 2011, 3:22 am

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Oh sweet Christ, Saddy, when in your stunted, frustrated, creepy little life have you ever had personal knowledge of a woman with a Phd? Honestly, now. An intelligent, educated woman wants a partner she can talk to. Turn off Real Housewives of SadApie's Imagination and go hang out at a respectable college. You'll find professors married to (surprise!) other professors.


I spent six years in college (guess they weren't respectable ones), thank you very much, and what I described above is exactly what I saw. I was also a TA and an RA for professors.

If women care so much about education, why do they treat me like s**t? I'll tell you why...being educated doesn't cancel out being ugly, broke, and boring.

Never watched Real Housewives. I hate reality tv.



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07 Oct 2011, 3:55 am

I was coming back to sand the edges off of that last post. It was inappropriate. But since you've quoted it, there it is.

You're right about being ugly, broke, and boring: it's a Fail Trifecta. But you seem awfully obsessed with wealth. There's a difference between making a modest living and being wealthy. Being broke is typically unattractive in men and women after a certain age. It's not unreasonable to look for a partner who is financially stable.
You education was supposed to make you more interesting. Don't know why that didn't happen. As far as your looks go... Jesus, you really wanna keep describing yourself as Quasimodo and then pointing your finger at women for not wanting you? If you're as bad as you say you are you can hardly blame the women. And leave the money out of it.



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07 Oct 2011, 3:59 am

Fullofstars wrote:
I was coming back to sand the edges off of that last post. It was inappropriate. But since you've quoted it, there it is.


I don't care...my life is pathetic. Tell me something I don't know.

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You're right about being ugly, broke, and boring: it's a Fail Trifecta. But you seem awfully obsessed with wealth. There's a difference between making a modest living and being wealthy. Being broke is typically unattractive in men and women after a certain age. It's not unreasonable to look for a partner who is financially stable.
You education was supposed to make you more interesting. Don't know why that didn't happen. As far as your looks go... Jesus, you really wanna keep describing yourself as Quasimodo and then pointing your finger at women for not wanting you? If you're as bad as you say you are you can hardly blame the women. And leave the money out of it.


That's all fine. I'm just sick of the women and white knights here saying my problem is a bad attitude, when it's clear the Fail Trifecta is my problem. At least you admit it....

Although I do question why you think educated and boring are mutually exclusive categories. In my experience, women rarely want to talk about anything intellectual...



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07 Oct 2011, 3:59 am

I hate politics, philosophy and all that stuff, and I can't see myself with a guy who has lots of deep thoughts and strong opinions about them either.

Just as long as they're smart enough to possess common sense I don't care. You don't need to get a PHD to have common sense, though some people in the world would have to study years just to get a shred of it.



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07 Oct 2011, 4:04 am

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I hate politics, philosophy and all that stuff, and I can't see myself with a guy who has lots of deep thoughts and strong opinions about them either.

Just as long as they're smart enough to possess common sense I don't care. You don't need to get a PHD to have common sense, though some people in the world would have to study years just to get a shred of it.


Jackpot.



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07 Oct 2011, 4:05 am

SadAspy wrote:

Some guy will take care of you...don't worry. The same isn't true for men, as we are expected to always be the breadwinners, despite feminism.



What planet do you live on?
Are you oblivious to the fact that the vast majority of women *work*, because they have to?

If you really believe having a vagina means a free ride in life,
no wonder you have those misogynist thoughts.

How absurd.

If you bemoan the expectation placed on men to be breadwinners,
you should also be fed up with the vast educational and employment leadership gaps between the sexes upon which that expectation is predicated,
and the parallel expectation for women to be dependent and largely decorative.

Won't hold my breath for that one, though.


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