25 and never had a girlfriend

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I found that the harder you look, the harder it is to find. Just stop trying hard and go about your life, and if it happens then cool.

I'm almost 26 and never had a girlfriend or came in any physical contact with a woman.

If I reach age 50 however and never find a girlfriend by then then I'm in trouble because I don't find women around that age range (50-60) so attractive. I like young women.

I hope no offense is taken by this.

Last edited by rasol on 29 Oct 2011, 2:03 am, edited 1 time in total.

Add another to the list. 29, and still waiting for one.

I went until 33/34, It's not impossible, keep your head up and get ahold of yourself lol, I've never found true love or a meaningful relationship I thought If I got past the having sex barrier everything would change.. it didn't women would lose interest after a few meetings or I would get so suffocated with questions or phone calls I would say something incorrect but, in a way I'm ok with myself, If the right woman is out there it will happen!

I do not mean to brag but I am 22 and I will be turning 23 next year. I had my first girlfriend when I was in first grade then dated all threw out high school. I have had a total of 8 diffrent girlfriend trust me it isn't all that special just wait and it will happen.

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[quote="Adam82"]Add another to the list. 29, and still waiting for one.[/quote]

That's your problem.

I'll be 29 next week and I only had one girlfriend.

My parents suggest that I date someone with a disability...since I, too have one.

But since I'm carless (I have no car), this is difficult.

I might as well call my girlfriend Imaginary...because that's all I can get.

Nearly 40 here, and never BEEN anyone's girlfriend.

Could have to do with the fact that I didn't know a single autistic boy, growing up. Not one. And this is retroactive looking back at their behavior. I'd hazard a guess as to that me and a female friend of mine are/were the ONLY autistic (me diagnosed, I SUSPECT she has it) kids in our class. Or several grades above and below us.

I'm 27 and never had a girlfriend. Caused me a lot of grief until I learned to quit worrying about s**t I couldn't do a thing about, since you can't change other people. I've focused on making myself happy as I am, so if I find a girl, great, but if not, I'm still great, because ultimately I need no one for my contentment.

People who depend on others for their happiness, who need a partner to complete them are pathetic f*****g losers anyways. Be happy with who you are, and what you have, and don't let the absence of a partner ruin that. Life's too short anyways. Focus on finding something that fulfills you, gives you a purpose. The rest will work itself out in course.

This is good advice (apart from the bleeping losers part).

I've never really had a girlfriend either. Never had anything intimate with a woman either.

It is because the kind of women who ever showed interest in me in the past were the ones that I didn't find sexually appealing.

The type of women that I AM physically attracted to are usually the ones that I stand absolutely zero chance of attracting.

To be honest, what would you rather have out of the following metaphorically speaking:

A) Wait for the right partner.
B) Have a relationship and he or she is abusing you.
C) He or She is controlling every aspect of your life.

I'm no expert and I get how most of you feel as I myself feel a sense of need but I did have one relationship which was not option A whatsoever. Don't fall for anyone immediately.

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wow..you're really 29?!
You look a lot younger in your avatar there,assuming you meant for that to be you of course


But on topic fella's,I'm 28 now and I've had a few very short relationships.
My first was on the internet at 16,I never even met her and we eventually stopped talking.
Then around 16-17 I briefly dated this insecure girl that became VERY clingy,which put me off a lot.Guess she didn't like that cause we dated for like less than a week
Funny thing is that she is married now with two kids.And she wrote me on facebook about 6 months ago and basically implied she wanted to meet up and probably even sleep with me.I turned her down as I am not a home wrecker and in all seriousness have very little respect for people who cheat.She didn't like that either...defriended me almost instantly lol.

And then around two years ago I dated this girl at work that really acted like she liked me for a week or two.Turns out she was a female version of a player though,so that didn't last long either.Never under stood why I seem to attract so many girls with issues.

I'm 24 and I still don't have a girlfriend myself. No girl in high school, college or work has ever made a move on me. I was always the one asking girls if we could hang out socially (not dating), but the girls would turn me down, claiming that they had boyfriends or were too busy with work and family, etc.

As for tb86, I proud that the girl who you met at the job interview became interested in you despite your AS, and made her first move on you before you did. Did you find her interesting and physically attractive? If you really like her, then you should continue your social friendship with her. If it works out very well, she could be your potential girlfriend.