Ria1989 wrote:
Thanks! I need to decide if I want to follow my heart or my brain.... YIKES. You're right though, I could end up moving to where he lives and find out that he isn't the one. I have to think logically about it and know that that could happen in my hometown as well (wasting time and money into something that will end). This happened to me here too.
His dedication to education is really attractive. I can't find this in many guys around my city despite signing up to a dating website that matched me with people similar to me. Ugh. I hate being alone, which makes it way worse.
first of all pick brain on this one.
if you pick 'heart' theres a 99% chance you'll end up heartbroken, or heartbroken + broke, etc.
as for finding someone what about outside of dating websites? do you know how to be 'flirty' or act interested in a guy you find attractive? do you get out enough to be able to use these skills you might have? honestly i think you'd be surprised at your results if you just dressed nicely and smiled at guys you found attractive and intriguing.
07 Dec 2011, 2:50 am
