I refuse to hate him!!

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The_Face_of_Boo
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07 Dec 2011, 1:38 am

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Teredia wrote:

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It's ok, you can hate me.

thanks Boo. theres been many times ive wanted to hate u but i dont but thanks Boo =) you wise old face of boo xD

Wait....I thought you were talking about me.

Naa boo. Not you. you're always so helpful ^^

I should have known that.... I am too uninteresting to be loved by anyone ( ;_; ) .... silly me ( ;-; )

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07 Dec 2011, 2:00 am

I have not known that this was what was different about me for my whole life. I have only known for about 2 months. While doing research on my old bf, I discovered it about myself. I assumed that since you were, you would know more about it than I. It is difficult to know how effected and where the effects lie in another person.

I apologize if I have offended you. I also didn't mean to turn this about me. It is something I really need to work on. I was hoping that since we had the same issue, it might help you as well.

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07 Dec 2011, 2:03 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's ok, you can hate me.

thanks Boo. theres been many times ive wanted to hate u but i dont but thanks Boo =) you wise old face of boo xD

Wait....I thought you were talking about me.

Naa boo. Not you. you're always so helpful ^^

I should have known that.... I am too uninteresting to be loved by anyone ( ;_; ) .... silly me ( ;-; )

what are you talking about Boo. I love u ur awsome I just dont hate you ^^ how could I hate someone like you? besides youve never given me any reason to

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07 Dec 2011, 3:09 am

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's ok, you can hate me.

thanks Boo. theres been many times ive wanted to hate u but i dont but thanks Boo =) you wise old face of boo xD

Wait....I thought you were talking about me.

Naa boo. Not you. you're always so helpful ^^

I should have known that.... I am too uninteresting to be loved by anyone ( ;_; ) .... silly me ( ;-; )

what are you talking about Boo. I love u ur awsome I just dont hate you ^^ how could I hate someone like you? besides youve never given me any reason to

forever alone :__;

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08 Dec 2011, 5:46 pm

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Idiot me went and did it again. Went and fell in love on line with an aspie....
At first it was cool, we got on great. but i developed feelings, he rejected me, that was cool. how could it work anyways i must have been kidding myself... But i found myself feeling love for him.
Not Limerence, actual love, which is so rare for me.
Anyways we got into a massive arguement..... Even though im really hurt both mentally and emotionally from the ordeal. I forgot how bad it can be to be on the wrong side of an angry aspergers male.... I got burnt. Hes convinced ill hate him but i cant convince him i will never hate him...

Im raised soo differently....
And He's prolly going to read this and hate me more...
Then why am I posting? IDK

I know i can never get him to love me, so i wont force him, all i can do is do what i know best and continue to show him my kind endearing heart. even though its beyond repair and its endurance is at the state at the thought of trying to talk to him now makes me want to throw up.

But I love him... Im going to endure this, take it as it comes and show this highly f**** up world that im here to face it head on!!

All i have to prove is that im here and im not going anywhere YOU HEAR THAT WORLD!! ! IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE!! !

You go, girl. Be the hero for all girls and keep enabling his attitude with you. Don't ever set boundaries because they're just an obstacle.

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08 Dec 2011, 7:35 pm

"You go, girl. Be the hero for all girls and keep enabling his attitude with you. Don't ever set boundaries because they're just an obstacle"

Do I hear sarcasm? In an AS forum? Isn't that couterproductive here?

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08 Dec 2011, 7:57 pm

cinbad wrote:

I don't think you can hear sarcasm here. But you can definitely read them.

Counterproductive or not, sarcasm is not against the rules here. Aspies have the freedom to be sarcastic just as much as NTs do.

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09 Dec 2011, 1:26 am

MCalavera wrote:

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Okay im really confused?

were you using sarcasm or werent you?

the guy turned out to be a real psychopath anyways and i now dont want anything to do with him....

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09 Dec 2011, 1:52 am

"Okay im really confused?

were you using sarcasm or werent you?

the guy turned out to be a real psychopath anyways and i now dont want anything to do with him...."

Yes MC was being sarcastic. But MC is right...we all need boundaries when it comes to relationships. Unconditional love is for children, but we still set boundaries for acceptable behavior. It is nice to see that at least you have being a psychopath as your limit. It might help you to set your boundaries a little tighter to protect your heart. Maybe someone who berates you would be a good start.

I'm glad to see you protected yourself.

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09 Dec 2011, 2:16 am

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Thank you Cinbad =)

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09 Dec 2011, 2:24 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Teredia wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's ok, you can hate me.

thanks Boo. theres been many times ive wanted to hate u but i dont but thanks Boo =) you wise old face of boo xD

Wait....I thought you were talking about me.

Naa boo. Not you. you're always so helpful ^^

I should have known that.... I am too uninteresting to be loved by anyone ( ;_; ) .... silly me ( ;-; )

what are you talking about Boo. I love u ur awsome I just dont hate you ^^ how could I hate someone like you? besides youve never given me any reason to

forever alone :__;

Boo? Do you want me to hate you?

I cant hate Face of Boo no way!! no no no not gunna happen.
Boo and Wolfheart cannot be hated by me no no no
Idc how much i disagree with you two at times
NOOOOOOOOOO I REEEEEEFUSE!! !! XD
Thank you =)

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