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Well, there have been times where I've thought about just ending it all, or at least not going out to clubs and parties where I have to constantly see couples enjoying themselves.



This is something I've thought about but girls tend to be spiteful against one another and sabotage things. On New Years I was at a club, and on two occasions, the fat friend shooed me away. It's like H.L. Mencken said, "Misogynist: a man who hates women as much as women hate one another". By the way, as an admirer of Alexander the Great, I really appreciate your name.

heyyyyy women protecting each other from a guy in a bar means they care, it doesn't mean they hate each other.

Yeah....because my height of 5'8" is so towering and intimidating. If these women had guys trying to talk to them they wouldn't give a damn about what their slim friends were doing. That's why a lot of guys always approach girls in sets. One gets the slim friend and the other guy "takes one for the team". With guys, it's kind of different. If your friend gets the attention you just accept it and go home alone. There is no "both of us score or no one scores" type of thing.

women aren't usually like that. they intentionally cockblock men who are trying to pick up their drunk friends, or if they are worried about their friend's safety, or if they think for any reason that their friend will regret it in the morning. it's protective thing and not so much a jealousy thing most of the time.

it doesn't matter if a guy is 5'8" or 6'8"... it doesn't make it less of a potentially dangerous situation because women are generally not as strong as men. i think that perhaps you are not aware that going home with a strange man from the bar can be an extremely risky situation for a woman. men have some risk too, but not to the same degree.

p.s. being fat doesn't equal being less desirable to all men... just to some men. so you're assuming certain motivations for the fat women that don't have very much to do with reality, because it's not like they are necessarily getting rejected left and right.

The problem is that with guys like me (and aspies in general), we immediately set off the "creep" detectors even if we have no bad intentions. So we get blocked anyway...

i agree that it can be a problem. i don't have a solution for that, and i think it is completely unfair to well-weaning aspies.

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. I don't really believe in the whole "I don't know you well enough" routine. Women either like you, or they don't. If Tom Cruise walks up to a random girl and asks to go back to her place, she's most likely not gonna say "I don't know you well enough for that".



I can agree with that to a certain extent.



Most men prefer women who are not fat. Not all, but most.