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DamienScott
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01 Feb 2012, 6:36 am

tronist wrote:

i'd say dont talk to her any more. i see wayyy too many red flags. then again, im a hopeless romantic and if i was in your position (which i kinda am), i'd probably give it a shot even though my intuition tells me im stupid for doing so. lol

Hahaha! That's how I kind of feel too. Damn beautiful redheads! >.<

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01 Feb 2012, 7:28 am

DamienScott wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Here's my opinion.

Meet her, but don't invest in her.

heatherbk wrote:

She sounds like trouble to me.

Thanks ladies

I may just be done with her completely after tonight. she blew me off agian for an hour or so then logged out randomly. I texted her and attempted to talk, but she still seemed preoccupied and then stopped messaging me when I was asking her questions about meeting. She usually tells me when she is going to bed and it was a bit early for her, so I expect fishieness!

I sent one last message to her. Something to the effect of : "Well I'll be here, but let me know when you actually want to talk". Didn't get a response and I bet I look mighty controlling to her right now. XD

I'd just forget it. The balls in her court. If she does try to arrange a meeting, go, but I wouldn't start a relationship with her.

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01 Feb 2012, 7:53 am

hale_bopp wrote:

I'd just forget it. The balls in her court. If she does try to arrange a meeting, go, but I wouldn't start a relationship with her.

Yeah, I probably won't. I have been kind of ignoring it, but my ex lived about an hour away also and I really don't know if i want to do that again.

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01 Feb 2012, 11:06 am

this is the aspie quiz Aspie quiz

and also there is the EQ SQ which is pretty interesting (At least I think it is fascinating)

good luck with the flaky girl (sometimes girls want to move ,to something better, because they are still stuck in muck of past relationships, kind of a messy area to get involved with, better to wait and see if she is really ready and stable enough to have boundaries with her ex)

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DamienScott
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01 Feb 2012, 7:04 pm

glasstoria wrote:

Ooh, thanks for replying about the quiz.

Yeah, I haven't talked to her today and probably won't unless she messages me. I like showing interest, but I feel like it's being taken advantage of. I'm going to let her come to me if she wants me.

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02 Feb 2012, 12:23 am

:oops: thanks, DamienScott!

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02 Feb 2012, 3:01 am

Well I haven't talked to her today even though she has been on skype for the past 3-4 hours. She hasn't bothered messaging me at all so I'm going to just wait or forget it. If she thinks that I'm a nice guy and that means she can walk on me she is wrong. If she really wants me she won't have a problem persuing me.

Shameless Self Bump. I posted a good bit of my last relationship in the thread Would you like to share a story of a past girlfriend?.

It is quite legnthy, more so than this one, but I hope someone can learn something from my experiences. Plus it was some good self therapy for me

I'm not too sure about the rules or if that post is too long. I'm not sure if it needed its own thread or not... oh well.

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07 Feb 2012, 12:27 pm

See, this is what I find so frustrating about online dating. Either people find you a little creepy because you have interests outside of the norm, or you meet some SERIOUSLY disturbed people, or scammers. I'm sick of this s**t.

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08 Feb 2012, 8:46 am

It's a shame that women online have to suddenly become flaky even when you have got on so well with them. Sorry to hear this Damien.

I would be worried about the ex too, because I have had some hurtful experiences where I talked to a woman online and their boyfriend or ex meddled in.

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