The girl I like or the girl who likes me?

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He knows the drama queen better which means he likes her more. Which means she is physically(She's in band and drama) and emotionally(She's really playful and energetic) attrative. He will think of the queen even he does date with the student leader, like "what if I do making out with the queen?". That's guy's nature.
Logically, he should go for the leader. Instinctively, the queen.
Which values are more significant to you?
Passion, playfulness, energetic, expressiveness...advanture? (drama queen's nature)
Sucess, stability, security...comfort? Not knowing the leader better than you so go find out. Maybe I'm wrong.
What kind of attitude do you hold?
Moving towards attitude, go for the queen.
Avoiding pain attitude, go for the one who fancies you. (It's ok to avoid pain due to human nature)
Just my little opinion. Not an advice.
thankyou.

I concur. I said it before, and I'll say it again: "the one who likes you!! !" Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Sure, there's the principle of not settling, but if you're not too crazy about her now, she will grow on you, as you spend time with her on many dates, enjoying her company, the conversations, the hugging, the kissing, etc. If this doesn't convince you to choose the one who likes you, I'm giving up!

Either way, decide with confidence, don't look back and enjoy the ride.
It's the process that matters, not the result.
Ask what's good about this relationship? What can I learn from it?
Regret is a sissy act. don't ever do that.
Good luck.

go with the girl that likes you. what does it matter if it doesn't work out. at least you gave it a try. the girl whom you like doesn't seem interested in you in that way. if she said no before, theres a good chance she'll say it again. you don't exactly magically take a random interest in someone to begin with. but if you're not really into the girl that likes you, just pass on the entire situation. the possibility though, is that, the girl that you like might start showing some interest in you once you have a girl. so, this could work to your advantage in getting the girl that you really want. don't bait though. that's really a fukked way of doing things. people do it all the time, but don't pawn someone out to get a better piece, it just shows poor character, lack of personal respect and dignity. you're in high school, you are young, there is still time.
see if the one you like has an interest in you, and if not, then see the other girl. go out on a couple of dates to get better aquainted and she what unfurls. you never know, you just might actually like the one you likes you better!! !

just dusting this off of the tray of memories for you.

hope it helps

I'll throw my vote in for the girl who likes you too. Take it from a 33 year old virgin who remembers the days where it was so important and regrets his stupidity...

GET IT WHILE AND WHERE YOU CAN.

I'm serious. The dumbest things I did when I was younger was pine after girls I couldn't have while perfectly reasonable girls who were interested in me were available. Oh, the fields I could have sown had I not been so stupid! Don't get stuck on perfection -- it doesn't exist and the ones who appear perfect are often the least desirable in the end. Nothing is worse than a girl who can pick and choose. This is cold, I'll admit, but you aren't getting married to these girls -- get experience dating and having relationships. We need it more than others. Right now, I wouldn't know the first thing to do with a girl. They can sense that. It's a slippery slope, I tell you!

If you wind up loving her after all, well -- you're already set! After all, love can't truly grow without planting the seed first.* If you find out you can't stand her, well; that's what dating is for, right?

* Yeah, I'm particularly proud of that metaphor!

P.S. Now people think I'm gay too. Another risk you probably want to avoid (unless you are. Not that there is anything wrong with being gay, but it is really annoying to pay the social price for something you aren't!)

I would suggest the latter, try to show an interest back and try to do more of the same things together Best wishes mate, i wish i was in your position.

IF you go for the girl you like, but doesn't show interest in you, good luck, and enjoy the pain. IF you go for the girl that likes you, perhaps you'll get together and have a relationship. Either way, let us know which you chose....

Door number two! Door number two!! ! is what I yell at the game show contestant, through the T.V. screen.

She'll either grow on you or you'll tire of her. One or the other.

The worst you can do at this juncture is to take away the chance of either ouctome coming to pass as you chase an out-of-reach phantasm.

Don't make that mistake. Unless you enjoy pain.