hyperlexian wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
isn't this a different girl from the one you recently confessed to be in love with?
Yes, it is but it's complicated, she started smoking and I told her that I don't date smokers.
that was very fast to go from being in love with one girl to babytalking with another.
It may have been fast but my preferences and goals were made very clear to her, I can't have someone smoking when I want to be in a healthy environment and lead a healthy lifestyle. I'm not her father, it's not my responsibility, if she wants to smoke, that is her choice to make but I don't have to associate myself with it.
Preferences are preferences and rules are rules, without them, a relationship lacks direction or a sense of mutual understanding and respect.