Should I have a NT or AS Girl for a partner.

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What types of girls have you dated in the past?

Ugh never had a girlfriend. I do associate with women with successfully as friends but I'm a little particular for a girlfriend cause to say "I'm in for the kill".

The personality is highly important.

The body has to be curvy similar to an hourglass with a bit of meat to her. I believe if a girl has to have a little fat to her to be healthy, I'm turned off by these skinny twig girls bleh! (I'm talking about 100 pounds or less girls).
She has to be at least about 5'9, (I'm 6'2 so a girl that's a bit on the tall side to kinda look proportionate to each other)
She has to be very bright too!

that's not really an accurate statement. i've seen women with AS get emotional over small things, and i've seen NTs who didn't get upset about much at all. there really isn't a dividing line like you may think.

there isn't a list of pros and cons because we are not carbon cutouts.

Having AS comes with mood swings to they might not seem to upset about sometthing one day then we get really upset over small stuff that can send us into a panic attack. Hyperlexian is right though their are no pros and cons when dealing or living with AS just try doing a lot of research about it its more complex then people think.

Its just hard to find my type of girl. The times I do find them, Cassanova might as well stay out of my path or I will run him over like a. Gecko on railroad track.

I guess its just the instinct part of my brain saying which girls are good for having healthy kids with.
When I encounter my type of girl, my mind becomes a freaking hormone bath of Romantic desire, even to point of planning out the entire sexual encounter from foreplay to the finale.
The worst part is the feeling of a fiery tempest inside the body that lasts longer after the hypersexuality episodes which becomes distracting by reintroducing some of the hormones.

you can't really predict who will have healthy kids unless you do a full workup including blood tests, genetic tests, family background information, etc.

And what is healthy? Autism is a disease!! !! !! (stigma attached)

A disease is something that you die from you dont die from having Autism.

Look up the word disease, and if you want to discuss it further first google it then pm me or start a topic (one of which very recently had come up). Don't correct someone when you don't know about it.

okay so after you encounter your type of girl then what? Other than what you described, have you actually tried to "go after" one of these girls? Seems like you do find some girls you like.

and I agree with hyperlexian-even with all those test something can still go wrong.

I know about it I have AS how do you feel now

You all are going off on a tangent!

I didn't even bring autism up in my last post.

I went off topic for a ignorant post by Alexander but I think either a NT or Aspie would be good for you to date.

Why not love them for who they are instead of whether they have a disorder or not?
It shouldn't matter when you are just meeting them unless they show signals.

I have experimented with an NT girl to see what her response would be. She says I come off too romantic ( I know alot of you guys don't have that problem, I think).

I just wonder how an AS would respond that?

Would become "Agitated"?

I think they would respond the same being to romantic and get annoying with AS girls or AS boys try to aproach a AS girl logicaly.