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Would you date a guy because he has a fancy car?
I'll do 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
indifferent 45%  45%  [ 25 ]
I am not female/or gay. 54%  54%  [ 30 ]
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02 Apr 2012, 2:31 pm

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I don't care about his car. I care that he can drive well and knows how to change oil, tyres and basic crap like that which in my mind fall into the category of basic life skills.

I love my car and my motorbikes, they're my babies. In my opinion, a ferrari won't top my car, because at least I worked on it and did all the custom work myself. I also built both my bikes from scratch. It's a personal thing for me and money will never make up for that.

I like MXH as a person, not because he has a racing car avatar. That as just an excuse on which to defend him at the time, and I was just joking.

What I find interesting is when you cannot distinguish between someone who makes a joke once, and someone who is obviously concerned with money and status. They are two completely separate things.
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02 Apr 2012, 3:09 pm

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Kjas wrote:
I don't care about his car. I care that he can drive well and knows how to change oil, tyres and basic crap like that which in my mind fall into the category of basic life skills.

I love my car and my motorbikes, they're my babies. In my opinion, a ferrari won't top my car, because at least I worked on it and did all the custom work myself. I also built both my bikes from scratch. It's a personal thing for me and money will never make up for that.

I like MXH as a person, not because he has a racing car avatar. That as just an excuse on which to defend him at the time, and I was just joking.

What I find interesting is when you cannot distinguish between someone who makes a joke once, and someone who is obviously concerned with money and status. They are two completely separate things.
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You built your own bikes? :heart: will you take me on a motorcycle roadtrip!!


Now now, as you can clearly see im the one mentioned on her post.
That said I am thinking of once i have a ok job buying a bike around here. Maybe a modern cafe project to keep me busy. I hate bikes but the cheapness is something nesesary



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02 Apr 2012, 3:21 pm

When I had my 1984 Supras on the road, I'd get compliments from girls about it sometimes. Never gotten any compliments about my mom's Galant... My good condition gold one got a lot more compliments from girls and younger people than my rusted out blue one, though. So yes, girls do like nice cars. I think overall, girls notice more the "type" of car rather than like, how new it is. My Supra was almost 30 years old, but it'd sure as hell get me a lot more attention than if I were driving like a brand new Hyundai Elantra or something. Nobody would like, wave and honk, stop me in a gas station and ask me about it, etc, for driving a Hyundai Elantra, even though it costs like 10x more than my Supra would.

One thing, though, ricing out your car is overall bad. Like you'd probably not get girls with a very high IQ if you put like, 20 inch wheels on your 1996 Buick LeSabre. That and Hondas. Hondas are played out now.



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02 Apr 2012, 3:33 pm

This thread got me in the mood for discussing bikes, but when I went looking there doesn't seem to be a thread for it? Oh well, can't derail this really...

I'm making a list of parts required to repair my bike after a spill I had, and I've gotten to 1300 dollars already without one critical component. These things are crazy expensive toys, as well as potentially bloody dangerous. Perhaps some women get past the ooh shiny part of the assessment and see the potential for excitement as well?

I'm getting too old for bikes and too cynical for love...anybody wanna buy a bike?



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02 Apr 2012, 4:22 pm

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One thing, though, ricing out your car is overall bad. Like you'd probably not get girls with a very high IQ if you put like, 20 inch wheels on your 1996 Buick LeSabre. That and Hondas. Hondas are played out now.


When I was donating blood recently, the phlebotomist on staff said, "Hey, I wanna show you something." (He was a stranger to me). He takes out his phone and shows me some pictures of his extremely pimped-out ride. Being the good little pretend-NT, I said, "Oh, how nice! Is that your hobby?" And he said, "What? Taking pictures?"

If I hadn't had a needle in my arm, I would have facepalmed...



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02 Apr 2012, 4:45 pm

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You're exactly like smudge, she made it very clear that she wants a rich husband, and said it several times before in all seriousness, yet when i trolled her a bit about it she was like "i wasn't serious, i was joking, i dated poor guys before bla bla bla....".

Hey, it's ok if you have such preference, but don't deny it just because i confronted it or said that i don't like that in you, i'll respect this far more, it 's too late to make me believe you now.


Oh look, it's a "Bash smudge" thread. I thought you asked me bitterly to leave you alone?

"When I trolled her a bit" - I don't treat people IRL or on the internet the way you do. It is *you* who picks on people on here, and then try to cover it up with your "unique style" or another piss take thread.

Whatever my preference - each to their own. If it makes people happy, then let them get on with it. I'm not hurting anybody.



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02 Apr 2012, 4:56 pm

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1000Knives wrote:
One thing, though, ricing out your car is overall bad. Like you'd probably not get girls with a very high IQ if you put like, 20 inch wheels on your 1996 Buick LeSabre. That and Hondas. Hondas are played out now.


When I was donating blood recently, the phlebotomist on staff said, "Hey, I wanna show you something." (He was a stranger to me). He takes out his phone and shows me some pictures of his extremely pimped-out ride. Being the good little pretend-NT, I said, "Oh, how nice! Is that your hobby?" And he said, "What? Taking pictures?"

If I hadn't had a needle in my arm, I would have facepalmed...


That's the thing, it's one thing if your car is upgraded/looks different because it's your hobby, but it's another when you're doing it explicitly just to impress other people. I think in general people can tell, though. But, in uh...some...social circles, having your car riced out does indeed bring you popularity. How? I don't know.



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02 Apr 2012, 5:21 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You're exactly like smudge, she made it very clear that she wants a rich husband, and said it several times before in all seriousness, yet when i trolled her a bit about it she was like "i wasn't serious, i was joking, i dated poor guys before bla bla bla....".

Hey, it's ok if you have such preference, but don't deny it just because i confronted it or said that i don't like that in you, i'll respect this far more, it 's too late to make me believe you now.


Oh look, it's a "Bash smudge" thread. I thought you asked me bitterly to leave you alone?

"When I trolled her a bit" - I don't treat people IRL or on the internet the way you do. It is *you* who picks on people on here, and then try to cover it up with your "unique style" or another piss take thread.

Whatever my preference - each to their own. If it makes people happy, then let them get on with it. I'm not hurting anybody.


You want to french-kiss me, I know that.



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02 Apr 2012, 5:27 pm

Sure, when it comes to "casual/fun" dating a car certainly helps, what's wrong with that?

Probably not a good idea to make that your criteria for a life partner though...



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02 Apr 2012, 5:40 pm

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You want to french-kiss me, I know that.



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02 Apr 2012, 5:53 pm

The last guy I dated didn't even have a driver's license. (He was British)

For me if a guy is too fussy about cars it's a real turn off.



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03 Apr 2012, 2:51 am

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Pics or it didn't happen.


Come here and show me how to set up the bluetooth on this computer and sure. It's a secondhand macbook I brought 2 weeks ago and trying to network or play with setting part of it is a PITA, I've failed 3 times already at setting up the bluetooth, for whatever reason it won't work.

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Shoutout to Kjas that's so cool you built bikes. I'm thinking of a cafe project for my daughter and me.


Could be interesting, make sure she likes the smell of grease first though. If she likes taking stuff apart and putting it back together, it might be a good thing for you two to do together. Most annoying / time consuming thing is hunting for parts. Buying them new is expensive (I did that with the 2nd one) but it also takes ages to hunt through and find what you need at the wreckers though (which I did on the first).

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You built your own bikes? :heart: will you take me on a motorcycle roadtrip!!


Sure, I always wanted to do a road trip from the tip of Chile to Canada or Alaska. You might want a shorter one though :lol:

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Now now, as you can clearly see im the one mentioned on her post.
That said I am thinking of once i have a ok job buying a bike around here. Maybe a modern cafe project to keep me busy. I hate bikes but the cheapness is something nesesary


:o You should do it, there are some pretty economical bikes for first timers. Cute little ninja 250 or something.

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This thread got me in the mood for discussing bikes, but when I went looking there doesn't seem to be a thread for it?


I don't think we have one, but we should have one. Somebody start a bike thread. And someone else start a thread in which they tell me how to fix my bluetooth on this computer. (can't have a bike thread without pics :) )

About your bike… you could buy the parts second hand?

To Boo,

I have some serious questions for you.

To be honest, I have never dated a guy who owns a car.

If I really cared about what car a guy has (which I don't, by the way, or even if he has one), do you think I would own an old 180SX myself? Nissans aren't exactly high status :) . Furthermore, do you think I would have worked on it so much myself over the years also? Why would I invest my own time and energy like that when I could pay someone to do it for me, if it was just about the money? If it was about the money I could have brought a new and better car rather than muck around with this one as much as I have. That doesn't make sense to me.

From what I have observed, you seem to have a bit of a chip on your shoulder when it comes to things like money and status (that isn't an insult, simply an observation). Could it be that it colours your view enough to not being able to distinguish from someone who was making a joke to someone who really means it?

I have seen you make comments towards Smudge like this quite a few times. I don't know if what you say about her is true or not, but does it matter, and if so, why? And if it is about Smudge, then why don't you just say that or take this to a PM conversation with her?


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03 Apr 2012, 3:01 am

I've always been pretty indifferent to cars, although it's useful if someone has a car and can drive it as I think that's an achievement in itself (one I hope to one day achieve). As far as types of cars go, I like practicality over unnecessary showiness, that's the type of car I'd buy - a practical car that was good value for money. There's not much point in buying a car for what it looks like because 99% of cars look ugly irrespective and the 1% that actually are more visually pleasing than the rest are way too expensive to be affordable by the normal population.

As far as buying a car because of what brand it is, it's the same as buying a clothing item because of a brand label on it when you can buy a clothing item identical in appearance without the brand label for a fraction of the price. You're basically paying for an arbitrary social symbol, which in my opinion is the equivalent of flushing several grand (well a lot more than that really) down the toilet.


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03 Apr 2012, 4:18 am

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I've always been pretty indifferent to cars, although it's useful if someone has a car and can drive it as I think that's an achievement in itself (one I hope to one day achieve). As far as types of cars go, I like practicality over unnecessary showiness, that's the type of car I'd buy - a practical car that was good value for money. There's not much point in buying a car for what it looks like because 99% of cars look ugly irrespective and the 1% that actually are more visually pleasing than the rest are way too expensive to be affordable by the normal population.

As far as buying a car because of what brand it is, it's the same as buying a clothing item because of a brand label on it when you can buy a clothing item identical in appearance without the brand label for a fraction of the price. You're basically paying for an arbitrary social symbol, which in my opinion is the equivalent of flushing several grand (well a lot more than that really) down the toilet.


Exactly, as long as the car can go from one point to the next, that's the main purpose, however you must be able to appreciate mechanical aptitude and why different designs might appeal to different people, it is a matter of perspective. I think someone with mechanical aptitude can be impressive if they have an understanding and dedication towards learning about a specific car or means of transport.

If someone devotes hours to designing and building a car, is it as impressive to me as someone who spends hours designing a piece of art or architecture? Is it as impressive as someone that has a dedication towards a particular sport or in your case, a musical instrument? Of course not, however to someone with good mechanical aptitude and understanding, it might be.



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03 Apr 2012, 5:39 am

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To Boo,

I have some serious questions for you.

To be honest, I have never dated a guy who owns a car.

If I really cared about what car a guy has (which I don't, by the way, or even if he has one), do you think I would own an old 180SX myself? Nissans aren't exactly high status :) . Furthermore, do you think I would have worked on it so much myself over the years also? Why would I invest my own time and energy like that when I could pay someone to do it for me, if it was just about the money? If it was about the money I could have brought a new and better car rather than muck around with this one as much as I have. That doesn't make sense to me.

From what I have observed, you seem to have a bit of a chip on your shoulder when it comes to things like money and status (that isn't an insult, simply an observation). Could it be that it colours your view enough to not being able to distinguish from someone who was making a joke to someone who really means it?

I have seen you make comments towards Smudge like this quite a few times. I don't know if what you say about her is true or not, but does it matter, and if so, why? And if it is about Smudge, then why don't you just say that or take this to a PM conversation with her?


Well, for smudge, I am started to believe that she didn't really mean it back then after all or she just changed her mind XD.

Honestly, women change their minds in what they want in men, I see it all the time, they say they won't go for X (ie. a trait, personality type, social class, religion...etc) yet they end up with X. Fantasy is totally =/= reality, i guess.

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If I really cared about what car a guy has (which I don't, by the way, or even if he has one), do you think I would own an old 180SX myself? Nissans aren't exactly high status :)

Well, the woman's own car isn't an indicator whether she likes men for their fancy cars or not, she probably simply can't afford something more than Nissan but that it doesn't rule out the possibility that she likes fancy cars or likes a guy for his fancy car.

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Why would I invest my own time and energy like that when I could pay someone to do it for me, if it was just about the money? If it was about the money I could have brought a new and better car rather than muck around with this one as much as I have. That doesn't make sense to me.


A personal passion you have perhaps? yet this has nothing to do with guys and fancy cars.


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From what I have observed, you seem to have a bit of a chip on your shoulder when it comes to things like money and status (that isn't an insult, simply an observation). Could it be that it colours your view enough to not being able to distinguish from someone who was making a joke to someone who really means it?


It was quite amusing, but i'll set her free from now on ;p

Well, it's hard to see a joke in forum posts sometimes.



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03 Apr 2012, 6:48 am

I'm the first person who put "yes" :lol:

In general, no, I wouldn't. But I do have one exception. I happen to be in love with Dodge Vipers (SRT or RT10.. 1993-2012, doesn't matter I love them all) and have made a pact with myself that if a strange man in a Viper ever offered me a ride, I'd take it :lol:


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