Hi im new to this. My boyfriend told me at the beg of our relationship that he has aspergers. When he told me I said ok and kind of shrugged it off. there were times at the beg that he would be short in his replys to me and that would be a couple days, it sucked but I got over it and figured maybe he needed time to self no biggie. Things have went well and I honestly never thought of his aspergers. A couple of weeks ago he went through a stressful event. He started becoming short with me again but I chalked it up to the event. He still was talking to me lsat week but last friday he started ignoring my text and call. I sent him some texts fri and sat about him ignoring me, no response so sunday I decided to give him space and as I was thinking realized that I forgot about his aspergers, and I prob shouldn't be so pushy. So the next day I text him that I was sorry if I was stressing him out even more, and that if I didn't lose him I want to learn how to be there for him and that I love him so much. He finally responded that he still is deeply in love with me and that I did not lose him and that he does not want me to feel like I did anything wrong. That is all he sent me monday. Than this morning I texted him good morning love and he said good morning my best friend. Later today I sent him a text saying I got a interview for where I want to work, and he responded WOW!:) and than ignored me the rest of the day. I understand that its guys aspergers putting up this barrier and I love him so much, and I know I can be there for him, but I guess im confused how to be there for him. I guess being new to this and as a over analyzer my self I feel super sad. Im completely lost with if he wants to be with me or if he's trying to push me away... I know my thought sound unorginized, but I guess im just looking for some clarity.
01 Aug 2012, 12:42 am
