26 Apr 2012, 7:42 am
Like every guy does it etc.... I can understand if you are single, or if it dosen't bother your girl, but when I have made it clear to such an extent, I feel violated he tries to make me feel like a bad person for wanting a relationship with someone who won't do that...
He tells me any guy that says they don't do it are lying and no one else will take me knowing that so, I might as well stay with him etc....
I KNOW this is untrue, but the way he does it really makes me feel no hope of meeting someone ever again... it is only the first few days so I am trying my best to keep talking about it so I stay strong and don't let him back....
Right there (bold) is your answer. This is a sh***y person, regardless of whether his particular disrespect is pornography or drugs or whatever. Total douchebag. You're WELL shut of him.
A true man will respect your feelings and, if he continues to use pornography, will do so in a way as not to expose you to it. Most men have an innate sense of privacy, regardless.
26 Apr 2012, 12:36 pm
Wow, what an eye opener..... feels like I have been holding my breath for the last year, and finally can breath again....
Amaizing how when you get so isolated, the way a person can take total control of your mind...
Thank you guys so much for telling me what I would probly say as an outsider at one time.
My mind got so wraped into him telling me how inadequite I was, and trying to be a "better" person, I lost all sight of someone accepting me "as I am"....
Yesterday I was almost letting him talk me back into giving him another, (500000 now) chance....
I should have stuck to my actions speak louder than words atitude I had back when I was strong.... when we first met.
I gotta keep focused on reality now to not let this happen again.
THANK YOU! 
