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29 May 2012, 5:01 pm

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The most disabling aspect to Asperger’s or ‘high functioning’ ASD are the deficits in social communication.

I read recently that only 7% of communication is in the actual word meanings. (the part we {me} are good at)
That there are over 10,000 individually identifiable (by neurotypical humans) facial expressions.
That there are between 2.5 and 3 million words in the English language.

That’s a lot that I can screw up.

Then there’s body language…

And chicks are highly aware of what’s ‘normal’ and not.

But on the third hand chicks seem unable to resist the adventure and drama that clouds around the ‘bad boys’ like a stench of burnt motor oil.

Maybe it’s because they can relax and have fun because it’s no big loss to be dumped by a loser. Maybe they’re really just slumming.

Conversely we (thread) are posting on a site called the Wrong Planet.

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oh man, those baby birds sure can see right through us alright

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29 May 2012, 5:54 pm

Do you honestly think that all those other people are going up to women and saying,
"Hi, I'm X, and I'm an abusive, cheating thug?"

Asperger's causes awkwardness that is obvious from the first time you speak to someone.

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29 May 2012, 5:57 pm

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You can typically judge a man by what people he hangs out with. Feathers of a bird flock together.

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29 May 2012, 5:59 pm

Kurgan wrote:

Who_Am_I wrote:

You can typically judge a man by what people he hangs out with. Feathers of a bird flock together.

Ah, so his friends will be advertising the fact that they are abusive, cheating thugs. I see.

Most people like that act a lot nicer in public than behind closed doors.

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29 May 2012, 6:06 pm

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What I do encounter, sometimes, is men who are not attractive at all - even less so than me - who are in a happy relationship. A convicted serial killer often receives love letters. Joran van der Sloot was able to get laid even after everyone knew he had murdered Nathalie Holloway (he murdered another one who slept with him after that). I haven't even murdered anyone. Dating-wise, I'm deemed less desirable than murderers.

omfg, I dunno what to say about this.

http://www.alternet.org/rights/147340/w ... _proposals

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29 May 2012, 6:14 pm

I wonder if Anders Breivik will ever receive lover letters too.

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29 May 2012, 6:16 pm

Yes - it's amazing. I'm not the best-looking person in the world, but I really didn't expect serial killers to randomly receive love letters and photos while women only look at me when they want someone to laugh at. It's a very sick fetish. As for Breivik, I remember reading he'd already received some. He looks pretty good, though. Had he been less insane, he would have made a great actor or politician.

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29 May 2012, 6:19 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I wonder if Anders Breivik will ever receive lover letters too.

There is one dude in New York who is doing everything short of claiming he's the new Messiah.. So I'm sure there are some.

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29 May 2012, 6:21 pm

rabbittss wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I wonder if Anders Breivik will ever receive lover letters too.

There is one dude in New York who is doing everything short of claiming he's the new Messiah.. So I'm sure there are some.

Cesidio Tallini?

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29 May 2012, 7:11 pm

s**t attracts flies i guess.

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29 May 2012, 7:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I wonder if Anders Breivik will ever receive lover letters too.

He gets love letters from all over the world, but he also gets death threats, both in the form of letters and from other inmates. Many inmates who feel bad about their past, believe that they can cancel out their bad deeds if they kill him. Before he abruptly ended his steroid cycles (this caused him to gain fat quickly, as his body stopped producing enough testosterone), he wasn't ugly, though.

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29 May 2012, 7:52 pm

Despite the unmistakable look of a psychopath, I think a lot of women would have instantly fallen in love with him before he killed all those people.

Even now, he's doesn't look bad at all. Had you put this photo on a dating site before last year saying he was a lawyer, you might have been very busy answering messages.

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29 May 2012, 9:22 pm

He needs to go ahead and admit he's losing the follicle wars and also burn that douchebaggy chinstrap off his face too. Should just go straight Col. Kurtz and start mumbling when he talks..

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30 May 2012, 2:32 am

He reminds me of Prince Charming in Shrek.

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30 May 2012, 8:47 am

What, may I ask, is the "unmistakeable look of a psychopath", and how can it be distinguished from "I think he looks like one because I know what he did"?

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30 May 2012, 9:06 am

I confess, I thought he was handsome when he first appeared in the news, but he kinda frightened the hell outta me too.

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