Where's all the aspie guys?

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19 Jun 2012, 2:36 am

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I hate the term "aspie".

Why?

You're that guy that kept using the term "cheating" in another thread you started which sounds even worse.

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19 Jun 2012, 2:41 am

Venger wrote:

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I hate the term "aspie".

Why?

You're that guy that kept using the term "cheating" in another thread you started which sounds even worse.

Ok, but why do you hate the term "aspie"? Do you have a think against labels or something?

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19 Jun 2012, 2:51 am

I just don't like the way the word sounds.

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19 Jun 2012, 2:56 am

I wouldn't even limit yourself to them. There are NTs out there who are also quirky or socially awkward or have other problems and may be able to understand you. My husband is one of them.

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19 Jun 2012, 2:49 pm

Go on meetup.com and see if there are any fun Autism/Asperger's meetup groups in your area. I met the guy I'm currently dating an an autism meetup :wink:

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19 Jun 2012, 7:37 pm

I used to be an aspie guy, then I took an arrow to the knee and became an aspie girl.

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19 Jun 2012, 7:53 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

Where are all the Aspie guys? They're right here on WP!

There's lots of Aspie guys out there but they can be very hard to find offline especially if you live in an area where there isn't much to do besides social NT things like partying. There's no shortage of lonely ones here. You could try starting a post here saying your looking & describing yourself & what you'd like in a partner & relationship. You'd get lots of messages from them if your willing to do the long distance thing. You should checked their post history before jumping in to a relationship with one thou

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19 Jun 2012, 8:38 pm

I suspect most Aspies simply have never even heard of it and think they're "normal." (My own mudder is one of those. She thinks she's a socialite hostess with the most-est and refuses to accept the reality that nobody can stand being around her and her complete LACK of social ability!)

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19 Jun 2012, 8:59 pm

Kinme wrote:

I used to be an aspie guy, then I took an arrow to the knee and became an aspie girl.

So when guards of the opposite sex would say that they used to be '"like you" they meant....oh my.

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19 Jun 2012, 10:38 pm

Pyrite wrote:

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I used to be an aspie guy, then I took an arrow to the knee and became an aspie girl.

So when guards of the opposite sex would say that they used to be '"like you" they meant....oh my.

Now everyone knows. Sorry, everyone.

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19 Jun 2012, 11:19 pm

Kinme wrote:

Pyrite wrote:

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I used to be an aspie guy, then I took an arrow to the knee and became an aspie girl.

So when guards of the opposite sex would say that they used to be '"like you" they meant....oh my.

Now everyone knows. Sorry, everyone.

There are going to be a lot of unhappy trannies in Whiterun....

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19 Jun 2012, 11:21 pm

Pyrite wrote:

Kinme wrote:

Pyrite wrote:

Kinme wrote:

I used to be an aspie guy, then I took an arrow to the knee and became an aspie girl.

So when guards of the opposite sex would say that they used to be '"like you" they meant....oh my.

Now everyone knows. Sorry, everyone.

There are going to be a lot of unhappy trannies in Whiterun....

*Plays world's smallest violin for those unhappy trannies in Whiterun*

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19 Jun 2012, 11:23 pm

BlueMax wrote:

Boy, ignorance is bliss. I wish I was never diagnosed.

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20 Jun 2012, 1:30 am

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I am a female aspie and I've decided I need to meet some aspie guys. I've had 3 real relationships in my life; two were with guys I had no idea were horrible as I wasn't aware of the "signs" that most people would have seen, and although everyone else knew... no one told me. One was with someone who called himself an aspie, but I believe he has some type of personality disorder.

I am still young and I have a really strong desire for a partner in life, well... strong desire in other ways also. :oops:

I believe there's some awesome aspie guy out there who would be thrilled and amazed by me- and vice versa.

Any ideas?

(I don't like the whole dating site thing, though.)

I suspect that most of them are more interested in internet porn than in meeting women...

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20 Jun 2012, 3:44 am

Lonermutant wrote:

I suspect that most of them are more interested in internet porn than in meeting women...

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20 Jun 2012, 4:04 am

Tim_Tex wrote:

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I am an aspie girl whose really surprised u cant find an aspie guy.. maan ive dated 2 and half of them. the half is a bit of an odd situation. the half is more or less"ya this isnt working, want friends with benifits instead?" so thats 2 and a half... lol.

Anyways my point is, i find that when an aspie girl, isnt looking, she usually runs into a bottle load of aspie males...
Or you could simply move to either, Katherine, NT, Australia, or Darwin, NT, Australia. we have a lot of aspies up here apparently.

must be something in the water..

Funny there are a lot of Aspies in a region with the abbreviation "NT".

yes i know this is quite weird indeed... I live in a place abbreviated as NT, and omg aspie population is huge O.O its kinda why i put my location as N.T. see who notices =) i love making that joke on here xD

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