Men, please help me.

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Dorkies...

that's it...

It doesn't mean that all men want all the items fulfilled by the same person.

Every man is different and going to want different things.... I'm sure there's some out there that are interested in the qualities you offer.

Well spend time one on one, So you don't have to worry about this weird guilt about people thinking your a slut? That's from other women, No real men judge like that because intimacy is normal and I don't know where that guilt and shame came from but that's some crazy inbred s**t, Who come up with those laws and rules control freak inbred parasites that won't be missed, Be open in the conversation from the beggining and experimenting is ment to be done in the teen years but you could become a late bloomer.

I agree with Scottinoz. Slut BS was made by women. Men doesn't judge this way, because we want to get laid, so it would not make any sense.
I know a woman who cheated her boyfriend with 10 guys. I was the tenth one and she seduced me the same night we met. She was nympho I suppose. And all my friends wanted her phone number
So act as you feel. Love is about feelings, not counting the hours or days

And what do we want? That's a wrong question. You should probably ask what do we hate.
Well, we hate controlling & interrogating women.
Moody & unstable women.
Unreasonable & shallow women.
Always complaining & never satisfied women.
And women totally without confidence who do whatever we want and humiliate themselves.
We like to play with these women, we like to f**k them, but dating or marriage them? No way!

I'm afraid you only look at this from your perspective of benefits. They aren't a slut because they favour your disposition.
However if you were the boyfriend, I'm sure you would be calling her a slut the moment she even spoke to another guy.

Well, some do. They see it as "She's doable, sure. We had a good time, but I woudn't want to BE with her. I'm waiting for a 'nice girl'."

I'm not saying it's fair, or even logical, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

I guess it depends on both people as far as when is too soon. It sounds stupidly poetic, but there really does seem to be a "right time", and that's variable for each couple, not just each person. I've had longer term relationships with some women that I had sex with that first night. I've also had long term relationships with some women that I didn't have sex with for months.

If I may... you can't just change your preference like that. That's not being true to yourself.
You are born with it... so saying you will change to a lesbian because guys aren't good enough is rather immature.
I'm not trying to insult you... only saying that you just can't say things like that based on not finding the right person.

JanuaryMan&Nikorvus - Yes that's true. What i wanted to say is - it is pointless to ask on web what is the right time. If she wants to ask, she should ask the particular guy. I don't have the right time. It depends on the circumstances.

Sounds right to me.

I don't rank women as sluts based on when she sleeps with a man (or a woman) I rank people as sluts based on what criteria they have for who they sleep with.

Look at the exchange of sex as an economic transaction.

You have sellers of the product: Women

Buyers of the product: Men.

The reason for women as sellers and men as buyers is that for the most part women are the "gatekeepers" whereas men constantly try to locate a key.

If Sex is excessively abundant in supply, IE a lot of women are offering sex, the requirement placed on a man in order to get sex decreases, and vice versa if the supply-demand changes.

So, its in the best interest of men if the price of sex is low, but in the best interest of women if the price of sex is high. Compare it to any other product, the buyers want it as cheaply as possible the sellers want to sell as high as possible.

For that reason women tend to run a "cartel" of sorts, I suppose you can call it OPEC (Organization of p**** Exporting Communities) where women "enforce" a certain going rate for sex, through things like calling other women sluts. Of course, this is merely a loose organization and each member has the opportunity to sell at whatever price she desires, however she may be met with sanctions from OPEC for doing so. If a man happens to piss off OPEC, they can likewise attempt to enforce a "p**** embargo" on him, through the same means as they enforce prices.

The example from the Harvard report I read on this http://search.bwh.harvard.edu/concourse ... exEcon.pdf was that if women within a community all agree to withhold sex until marriage, then men are likely to marry in order to get sex (high price) however if a few women decide to require 3 dates, rather than marriage, then that undermines the price set by the "not before marriage" association.

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I know that I won't turn into a lesbian because I get dicked around again. That's why I put (not really). I put (maybe) for a little sense (I hate that word) of humor.

Ah okay then. =]