Crysta wrote:
I've never wanted or expected myself to have children. As a child and teenager, I could never understand or feel any empathy for people my age. When I was a child, I would perceive others my age as 'children' but not myself.
This is exactly me, I find this whole thread so interesting. I used to ask my mom why other children acted the way they did, and she was always just really confused, and she'd tell me that it was because they were children.
I'm hitting twenty four in a few weeks and my "biological clock" definitely hasn't started ticking the way older women always told me it would when I was a bit younger and said I didn't want children. There isn't a single aspect of children that I can tolerate though, I can't even be around them without massive anxiety. I hate infants, toddlers, their inability to communicate, their lack of understanding of logic and reason once they can start to communicate, the crying, their tiny little voices, it's all just like a cheese grater on my brain. People seem to react really strongly when a woman says she doesn't want children, as if it's weird and unnatural, and I'll surely grow out of it some day, which I always find hurtful. I think it must be how gay teens feel when they try to come out and they're told it's just a phase. This is just who I am, and I'm not going to change how I feel right down in the core of me because society thinks I need to make gross babies.
I saw a lot of comments higher up too about not liking dolls or anything. I used to have loads of dolls and My Little Ponies, but I couldn't for the life of me figure out what to
do with them. Like, I'm supposed to move them around, and do voices for them? That's stupid, why would I do that, am I right? I liked activities like arts and crafts though, or reading. I started using the computer when I was only about two as well. I think it's really cool that I'm not the only one, if only we could have hung out as kids and started a sweet high society club and had decaf tea and digestive cookies and looked down our noses on how childish the other children were :P