I got blind!

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Well well we went to gym together doing fitness classes for almost 2hours. Talked and that is pretty good. We talked like in equal turns, I mean balanced conversation. However, after the gym on way back to room I asked her does she knew anything about aspergers/autism. She said yes, I heard of it and that kind of stuff. Then I explained to her I have a mild case of it. And furthergoing I mentioned that to tell her if I did something wrong to you (her) in terms of speaking and that isn't I really meant to do something wrong. And also mentioned that my hearing loss has affected my language development in speech patterns and social interaction. After I explained to her briefly, she started to smile a bigger gesture than before.

Now I felt like 'doomed'!

Just see how it goes.

Don't be insecure and start sending her a ton of text messages about why she isn't replying immediately to your messages, try to keep a positive mind frame otherwise she will notice that you are insecure and it could have a negative effect when it comes to trying to form and maintain a relationship with her.

If you do get friend zoned by her, don't act passive aggressive or be negative, just simply accept it. It's difficult to do but the last thing you want to do is come off as clingy or needy because you are basically letting her dictate the dynamics of the relationship if you do that.

She already doing the talk and laugh. I have good sense of humour and she responding to it very well. She does seem comfortable of being me around her.

I'm not sure what you mean about her body language of complete attention?

Delete this thread. I was wrong. She with someone else, just found out.

Well overall, I am so right why women always avoid me by 'always in relationship with someone else', 'never understand aspieness and hearing loss' and 'vice versa'.

Delete this thread.