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Guppy
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02 Aug 2012, 9:09 pm

I didn't use to feel lonely. Then the only person I've loved left my life, in early June this year. So I've felt hella lonely since then.



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03 Aug 2012, 8:07 pm

I felt like that quite a lot when I was alone

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I doubt that I will ever find anyone nearby. I have found several nice guys on the internet, but they are hundreds of miles away. Even w/o the Asperger's, I am so different from the people in my area. Just finding ppl who don't have dealbreakers is hard. And I don't have the resources to move.

Same here about my area which is why my girlfriend is on the other side of the country from me; she's in Vermont & I'm in Louisiana. I don't have the resources to move on my own either but she has some resources so I'll move in with her :D


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04 Aug 2012, 12:45 am

Yeah I get really lonely from time to time...its usually when I see another friend talk about girls and see examples of the special interaction between a guy and a girl. For example the other night I was swimming over my friends and he recently got a girlfriend. I happened to view a text while he went to change and left his phone outside and I saw "I miss you already" (his girlfriend just left the day before to go on vacation for a week).



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04 Aug 2012, 5:33 am

Guppy wrote:
I didn't use to feel lonely. Then the only person I've loved left my life, in early June this year. So I've felt hella lonely since then.
im sorry to hear that guppy. i dont know the details, but in time you will feel better. it goes faster if you really work at it. and if you really look, and do your best, you could probably find another special someone again.

as for me, im always lonely. the thing i want more than everything in the universe is to find a girl that im really into, that likes me a lot too, and cuddle with her.

heck, if i wrote all the rules of the universe, i'd find a girl that really super incredible liked me, that i liked too, and we'd just cuddle roughly 99.4% of the day, till the end of days. lol



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04 Aug 2012, 6:52 am

I'm always lonely, but there isn't much I can do about it lol XD.



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04 Aug 2012, 2:53 pm

Titangeek wrote:
The pessimist in me says I will never find some one, the optimist in me says that with 7 billion humans, odds are there is some one out there. But until then, that's why I have an imaginary friend.


At some point, I was wanting to have an imaginary friend just to feel like I'm with someone :)



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04 Aug 2012, 3:31 pm

NatureLover wrote:
Titangeek wrote:
The pessimist in me says I will never find some one, the optimist in me says that with 7 billion humans, odds are there is some one out there. But until then, that's why I have an imaginary friend.


At some point, I was wanting to have an imaginary friend just to feel like I'm with someone :)


Not something I really planed, just happened.


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04 Aug 2012, 3:51 pm

Im always lonely but I talk to myself so it isnt always bad I tend to get used to it. I might as well become a hikkikimori if i havent already! :(


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04 Aug 2012, 4:19 pm

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I'm happy to accept I will be single for life.


im not happy to accept it, but i have to accept it still. Oh well, not like therell be either someone to hear me whine or much of a 'rest of my life'



there is no excuse to except being single for life, I refuse to accept that, and if I can't find a relationship, then I'll just have to kill myself. its better that way. but I think If no will ever love me, then I'll go out get my revenge on all those jerkwads who screwed up my life, and then I'll tick off the whole damn town untill they shoot me down and bury me in shallow grave. beucase I'm sick of liveing with the torment of being all alone, so if nobody will apologize for screwing up my life, and help make things better, I'm not afraid to return the favor.

so, yeah, what I'm trying to say its... DO NOT ACCEPT BEING SINGLE FOR LIFE!! !! ! I know I never will.



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05 Aug 2012, 5:21 am

I have a feeling I will probably grow old and die alone, not many would notice me gone anyway, and if they do they would get over it the next day after reading the obichuary in the news paper. They would probably say "oh what do you know, that weird guy died, oh well one less freak on the planet so whos up for some Starbucks?''


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05 Aug 2012, 1:58 pm

I wonder what it's like be like to be dead. I kind of had thoughts of just dying. I feel like no one cares about me. I feel like even if I'm dead, people will say "Oh that girl that was so quiet, shy, and bullied commited suicide. Well I don't blame her, she was a weird boring girl that no one could understand,"



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05 Aug 2012, 2:54 pm

As much as I hate to admit, yes, sometimes I feel lonely.



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05 Aug 2012, 2:56 pm

I like short replies

Magnus_Rex wrote:
As much as I hate to admit, yes, sometimes I feel lonely.



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05 Aug 2012, 3:28 pm

Since I feel like I'm so full of contradictions, there's no point in me replying. But, I just did. I still can't figure myself out. The basic answer is yes, sometimes.



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05 Aug 2012, 6:04 pm

I've once heard that all human violence is due to sexual frustration,
Me too very sexually frustrated,

In the book i told you about he writes, "Women are desperate for sex but have to balance that with wanting men the can trust"



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06 Aug 2012, 11:22 pm

I used to not think I was, but I probably am. I think I spent my life at many times perpetually lonely, but knowing no better, but then once I was given tastes of the other side, yeah...

I don't know. I got no clue, I think I was given my chance with "the one" and in my cowardice I squandered it, and I feel the entire course of my life has been altered by what I did and did not do.