anyone else nvr been kissed?`

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I've never been kissed, but I am 14, and have spent the last two years indoors :L.

I'm 29 and counting. I suppose I could ended that losing streak years ago if I really wanted to but I've yet to meet a 'kissable' woman at this point in my life. It's SO hard meeting available woman at my age!

it bothers me a lot. I want to mkae out, get oral, have sex...the whole shabang. It is not just the hedonic pleasure of kissing a girl that I desire but it is the eudaimonic meaning of it. Right now noone has evvr wanted to kiss me! Although I look in the mirror and see a 6 foot 2 tall white decently built 22 yr old with a college degree, I often wonder if I have a facial deformity or something! I wonder this bc I cant imagine a normal looking guy going 23 yrs without one french kiss! Getting a kiss for me would mean that I have the ability to be desired, and I have the ability to have sex.

Add another one to the list. Never kissed, never done anything, thirty in two weeks

I had my first kiss at 18 and it might not have been a bad thing either. I was starting to give up hope, and well, I'm now 21, and I've kissed three (unofficially four, as the fourth was not on the lips and just cuddling and the other girl had a cold). Hopefully surrendering my v-card can be a mutual experience, but I doubt it. I can only hold out hope though.

There is hope. Michael Moore lost his virginity at 32, some forty-something guy in the Netherlands has like eighty-five kids and didn't have sex until he was 35.

19 and never been kissed. I'm so untouched, I wouldn't be surprised if I was sacrificed to a dragon tomorrow!
But I don't really mind. I'm waiting for the right guy, and I can be patient until he comes along.

42 and counting...

To be honest, this isn't a high priority for me.

23 and never kissed.

Only thing I have ever done with women was grind dancing.

LOL same here and i had to beg one of my friends to do it with me. I have never grind danced at a club bc im always too awkward at clubs and stand there with a pile of steam coming out of my ears staring at the girls grinding with all of the other guys. One time this really wasted chick wanted to dance with me and iwas so awkward she left within one minute....although ti didn't help my friend cockblocked(and no i wasnt trying to get it in with a drunk)

Quarter-century down, doesn't quite apply to me. Just once.

You're not missing out on much.

Almost 25 without so much as a kiss on the cheek.
We're missing out on a lot Makayla.

Its not as much about the physical kiss, at least for me, then it is about feeling so undesirable a woman won't even kiss you.
Whats so horrible about me that the slightest hint of romantic interest from me sends a woman running?
I'm not ugly, but I sure feel like I must be.

I don't know how close that is for everyone else but its my surface thoughts on it.

What I find frustrating is that I'm not ugly and I get along GREAT with female co-workers (most are about 10 years older). Just yesterday I was talking to a group of 4 of them and all of them can't understand why ladies wouldn't be fighting over me. I'm in good shape, very tall, well liked, am great with children and have an extremely stable, full time job. At least if I was ugly I would know why but I honestly have no idea why I'm so apparently unattractive. If I'm quiet they aren't interested, if I'm aggressive they get scared and if I don't give a $#@^ they aren't interested either and if I'm friendly I'm friend-zoned. I've literally tried every strategy (and yes, I've just been myself for many years) and women have assured me there is nothing I do that would turn women away and it's very hard to understand why there isn't a lineup of women chasing me.

I know the obvious answer is "Aspergers you idiot!" but unless you know me well you would never suspect it at all. If relationships didn't last I would agree but I can't even get them off the ground! I know I only need one but I'm starting to doubt if one even exists.

Don't try and understand women.
Normal men can't even understand them, how could we ever have a chance?

We aspies don't even understand anyone but ourselves.

You've got one up on me then, I can't understand a thing going on in my head.