Why would anyone want a boyfriend/girlfriend for anything

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I would like the emotional connection as well as the intimacy of a relationship. But any relationship with me is not all about sex. However, I feel that any relationship that is completely devoid of it does not stand as much a chance of working out as one where intimacy is there.

Tim

Common interest base? Seriously, not all girls are shopaholics, and not all guys are boozing football jocks.

I like girls for the sex; it's part of being a guy. If you're normal in that regard, you'll develop a basic biological urge to f**k and have as many kids as possible. That said, finding a person to help you sort your emotional problems is always a great thing (especially since friends, parents and a psychologist can only help you so much with that), and if you share a common interest base with the person you're dating, even better. If I could get a date and get her into cosplay and roleplay, I'd be set.

There is so much more to a relationship than just the reproductive act. I mean if that was all a relationship was based on, why would it be a relationship in the first place and not a "f**k friend" kind of thing instead?

Eh, I don't know about having babies. I for one, am not particularly fond of babies, and I've considered buying condom boxes in stock in an attempt prevent them from existing.
As for liking girls for sex, yes, I do, but I also respect and am interested in them as people. However, I often notice that they don't return the feeling: I'm tired of them treating me as nothing more than a sex object. A lot of times I feel that girls just see me for my privates, and not for me myself as a human being. But that's yet another matter.
Whatever.

I want to be with a man to have him as my best friend. I'd like for us to know each other well enough (after talking of course) so that we can automatically tell if one of us needs more support and/or protection, standing up for one another because we know what someone else would say that would hurt our feelings. Having someone to look into their eyes and smile softly knowing that person will always have your best interest in mind and you do the same for them.

It's a nice idea for me, but I haven't found that yet.

Sex would be awesome with a person who I love that much and who loves me in return with the same magnitude. I don't think I'd be able to have a single night without making love to that person. I also like arguments to be over with as soon as possible. It makes me feel awful to be angry with someone I care about and vice versa.