Help, aggressive girl

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I think there is an awful lot of gender hypocracy going on here. If it had been the man being aggressive and the woman not wanting to do it, that would be called rape.

However, if its the other way around, then the only sympathy the guy gets is being called an "obstinate bastard". I really don't think that is fair in an age of gender equality.

BTW, this is coming from a guy who would have been very eager to do it with her, but I am defending people's right to choose.

Well, we're working through it now. She's being a little understanding, but even during a little make-out session we had touring the Nationality Classrooms here, she was getting a little freaky. Maybe I oughta stick with either not having her spend the night here or spending the night at her college (where there might be a bit more discretion). If there's one thing I admire conservative Christians (namely, my freshman-year roommate) over, it's their restraint.

Does she know you have AS? From the sounds of it, she is a little promiscous for you. If she calls & wants to come over, do not allow her to do so. I admire you for controlling the situation but DTPFA*.

*=If you read Dan Savage, DTPFA is the Aspie version of DTMFA! I am a feminist.

YoW! If she's up for everything up to but EXCLUDING penetration, you'll have to discuss which activities are okay, and which are NOT okay for you.

If kissing and cudddling gets her all fired up, maybe you should only do that in public places, since she'll be less-inclined to be carried away, and try to rip your clothes off.

If you want that than i think it's better to not do anything at all with her.
She seems like a verry sexual person.
Being like that myself i know that cuddling makes me want to have sex verry badly.
So basicly don't heat up the oven if you aren't interested in the Turkey.
Stick to doing totally non-sexual things.

To be totally honest i don't think she is the type for you.
You should try to find someone who is atleast somewhat compatable with your views.
I don't know what country you are from.
But from what i hear in America people are alot more conservative than my own country (Netherlands).